To be happy we must not be too concerned with others.

India
January 21, 2007 4:50am CST
I know you all must know what are those things which make you happy in life. I have learned few things from my life. I am going to share that with you. Its all about "Happiness". Happiness is not something that others can take from you. Its something that you would have to throw away on your own. There will be times when things don't turn out the way you want them to. Your best friend may backstabs you, you might loose all your savings, your partner might decide to leave you. These are things that can happen to anyone at all. But after the initial shock and pain, the decision whteher or not to let yourself down in hopelessness is entirely up to you. You can allow misfortune to form the bulk of your life, or you can choose to leave what's the past is past, and move on. People have the right to act in any way they feel comfortable. You don't have the rights to judge whether their behavior is acceptable or not. You can just share your opinions. They have to bear the responsibility for their own actions and so do you and me too. There are many others who will like you for who you are, and in spite of who you are. If you spend most of your time being unhappy and angry, you will surely miss the satisfaction of enjoying what this life has to offer. You've to admit the fact that there are too many things over which you have no control. The only thing you can do is stop allowing them to make damage in your spirit. "To be happy we must not be too concerned with others." So, What I have learned is, you need to make a personal commitement to be happy, in spite of what life hands over to you. What do you all say ???
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