Argument

@wynna1 (1291)
January 21, 2007 2:03pm CST
What are you like during argument? Do you prefer to stay away and just shut up so that no more words to utter and wouldnt upset the other person involve or you prefer to voice out what you wanted to say?
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7 responses
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I really like quet environment so I prefer to stay away on those discussions that will lead to arguments. But it's really necessary to voice out sometimes if you think and believe that you are really right. You must fight for your own rights so that the truth will come out. It really doesn;t matter for me if someone will get hurt or will be upset because of what I say but I am an honest person and I stood up for what I believe is wrong. But still I choose who are those people I want to argue about preferable not my husband because he's quite a little bit get mad easily, so I am beware!
@wynna1 (1291)
31 Jan 07
Yeah, so do i with my hubby.Its just nice sometimes to point out what's your view to a certain issue.Thanks for your response.
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
It depends on the people I'm with and the topic. If I feel really "into" the topic, then I'm all fired up and ready to spew words I'd normally never say. That is, when I'm among friends. If I'm not among people I'm really close to, I'd shut up and keep my opinions to myself.
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@wynna1 (1291)
22 Jan 07
You've made a good point there to speak when you need to and control for yourself if you're not in the right place to argue.Thanks for your post.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
I must admit I am not one to back away from an arguement and most times like to have the last word! lol But it never fails me as I do not like to argue (but at the same time do not like to back away) my emotions usually take over and I end up in tears, then no one can understand me anyway, BUT I will try to still have that last word. lol
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@mayammb (1815)
• Australia
21 Jan 07
I always prefer to stay calm and not argue since the other person is doing all the shouting and arguing part.
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@wynna1 (1291)
22 Jan 07
Yes i prefer to do the same. Thanks for your response.
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@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
21 Jan 07
i am one that will not back down until the other party has if i feel i am right, but if he has starting in on me for no reason i will just usually ignore him and keep my mouth shut.
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@wynna1 (1291)
22 Jan 07
yeah, i think thats the better thing to do really, just ignore them and keep quiet.Thanks for your response.
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• India
23 Jan 07
I never back away from an argument if i am right... If i fell something is wrong i will stand up and figt for it.... I always speak my mind never keep things to myself.... If i have to speak i will... Cheers!!!!!
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I blow then it is over I want to talk it out after
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I ignore them for a few hours or days, but I'm almost always the one to inititite a reconciliation or say sorry in the end. Even if it wasn't my fault I will still feel guilty, life is too short to have a fall-out with my loved ones. However I don't give a damn about acquaintances and coworkers I've fallen out with. I've got lots of things to do and reconciliation isn't one of them.