What was the worst advice someone has given you?

It was before when i got pregnant. This pregnancy is not planned at all..I was 1month pregnant then. And i dont know what to do coz my parents are good people and i dont want them to be dissapointed with me, but what can i do i'm already pregnant. And the worst is the one who gave me a bad advice is my x-bf whose the father of my baby. He give me a medicine for the baby could be aborted. And i'm fool because i took the medicine. I'm scared that time coz the baby is still growing and my x was gone, he leaves us. But thanks to God that the baby is now already 2yrs. old, with a healthy body and without any abnormalities..But this time, i already put in my mind that i dont want to do that again and i will be a good mother to my kids..