Being young,single...and desperate?
By guia10
@guia10 (139)
Philippines
January 21, 2007 11:33pm CST
Although I'm not on on my teens anymore,but on my late 20's,I just want to share what I noticed w/ the young ladies these days.I see a lot of them being so careless on the way-well-they enjoy their youth.I know the only thing constant in life is change and I must learn to accept that.but girls being too daring?Going all the way on the first date?pretending it's okay to have a relationship w/ a married man?Or to a man who physically,emotionally abd psychologically abuses her?i don't think so!Being young,should be something you'll enjoy looking back to when you grow old.Don't let your memories then be only about what you could have done,what if or things you'r regretting.If you think you'r in a bad relationship-end it and look for a better companion/partner!if you feel that guy isn't gonna take you seriously-believe in your hunch and don't give in too easily!There's nothing wrong in loving someone-but learn to love yourself as well.As for me,I've been into a lot of bad relationships before I met my partner now.I learned things the hard way.Yes,it made me strong,and I learned to love myself first.But a part of me feels I still wasted a few yrs of my life in those terrible relationships.How about you,are you in this kind of scenario right now?Would you choose to stay?Or would you let go and move on?
1 response
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
I congratulate you for noticing this things to many young ladies out there. I myself am disgusted with the way things are with young people. It seems their values have change from the things that we have seen inour society. Like getting married and separating after a few months and goin to another disastrous relationship again. And ladies who have an affair with a married man is accepted now in our society. Much to my chagrin coz they are oftentimes more demanding than the wife itself and more vocal about their illicit affair. But I still believe their are ladies who are still old fashioned and has the decency to know what is right and wrong. We should also respect ourself if we want others to respect us.
