Married or career?

Malaysia
October 6, 2006 8:17pm CST
I choose career bcause without this my living is not completed.Career is future and as a women i'll think we better more than a man. I'm married when I'm willing and really ready to without sacrifice my future.
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13 responses
remaster74
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
7 Oct 06
I say Carrier. I've quit my carrier in order to get married and now I see how wrong I was. The only positive that came out of this marriage was my son.
Nahara
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
7 Oct 06
Is that your son ??? if so then he's adorable
remaster74
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
10 Oct 06
Yeah! This is my son. People always say to me that he is adorable and funny and smart. I'm even surprised some times. He seems like he was born knowing stuff. Weird? May be it was because during my pregnancy I always talked to him and I was watching documentaries and stuff. The only thing I didn't do was to listen to music. And believe me I won't bring the past into my future!
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
You're can't repeat the past things had happen.So..try to loving your family and be grateful what god has given to you.
sillygirlsd
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
8 Oct 06
I choose Career also...At the moment I stay home...I'm 32weeks pregnant! So I'm almost there...I don't know why ANYONE would choose just to live a MARRIED life and stay HOME!!! With or without children...what if the husband happened to dissapear, leave you or die? What are you left with? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
aggreed with u.
Nahara
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
7 Oct 06
Why can't I have both, that's possible, u know ???
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
It's maybe.Work at home is solution how you can seperate your time for your family and career.But..if you at office right now..forget it.
MINDY0882
@MINDY0882 (2302)
• United States
7 Oct 06
married and my career is staying at home with my kids
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
It's that you? You're very cute and loving person..good mum's also.congrats.
gulshah
@gulshah (861)
• China
7 Oct 06
both carrier and marriage
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 06
yes..maybe you're loving family and caring all at around u.
wazzastone
@wazzastone (3)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
From a guys perspective... why do women see marriage and career as opposing? Cant both partners have careers or is it about kids? Just trying to understand... :)
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 06
i'll trying.
zyfro2k6
@zyfro2k6 (391)
• India
8 Oct 06
career is more important than anyother thing .
sandeepcet007
@sandeepcet007 (393)
• India
7 Oct 06
career is more important
dazzling
@dazzling (21)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 06
I agreed with u.
Zamin123
@Zamin123 (223)
• Canada
8 Oct 06
Career. I don't think I need to give a reason. I am just not ready to be cummitted right now. I'de rather make some money and hire a few strippers.
Zamin123
@Zamin123 (223)
• Canada
8 Oct 06
Career. I don't think i need to give a reason. I'm not raddy to be cummitted just yet.
zirgham
@zirgham (601)
• Pakistan
8 Oct 06
well said career is more important than married because if u have no career then your home environment will be tense
javamama
@javamama (147)
• United States
10 Oct 06
Ummm...I have both. I have a masters in photography and am going to college again to acquire a bachelors in elementary ducation and I am married with children. You can have it all. It really gives you the opportunity to know about yourself and still have The family that you long for. We both work and spend as much time with the kids as possible and it all works out just fine.
wazzastone
@wazzastone (3)
• Australia
8 Oct 06
I think life is always about balance. I beleive a career is very improtant because it can provide a strong sense of direction, purpose and independance. But at the same time, life without a deep and meaningful relationship with a partner that you love more than anyone or anything in the world, can be shallow and meaningless... I think we need both in life. I for one, would be the happiest person alive if I could find the love of my my and have a rewarding career... but if I had to choose, I would choose love first.