Right time for marriage.

India
January 22, 2007 9:10am CST
What do you thing? what should be the right time to get married? Its the age that is the important part or its personal level of maturity that decides. Is it really important to spend more time before marriage with the person whom you going to get married? I heared there are some village in India, where a woman go around with a man before marraige. They first have kids and then they will get married. What do you think? What are the main points to be taken into consideration before you get marry to a man or woman ?
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5 responses
@dexterous21 (1180)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
I guess you have to consider maturity. Are you capable of handling a family? Second is financial stability. Are you financially stable to feed your family? Those are the things that you should consider before getting married. "They first have kinds before getting married" I guess that is not acceptable in my case. I wont allow to have an illegitimate child. How if that guy found out that he doesnt really love the girl?
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• India
23 Jan 07
Yes, I trully agree with you on illegitimat child. That's true if guy turned out to be irresponsible person, girl would be in very much difficult situation. So, most important thing should be your maturity level and financial stability too. Good points. Thank you ! Take care
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@Vicky86 (243)
• United States
22 Jan 07
well, i got married quickly after me and my husband meet. i got pregnant and than we though desteny had brought us together and we decided to just go for it. marriage does not change a couple, if you got good along with that person before the marriage, than most likely you will after, but of course it is better to know that person very well otherwise you will get surprised....like i was. *lol* ciao vicky
@Vicky86 (243)
• United States
23 Jan 07
yes, but if you will ever understand someone....i don't know....there will always be another surprise. *lol* ciao vicky
• India
24 Jan 07
Yes, That's true. LOL. But life is all about surprises only. Just imagine yourself in a condition where you one everything what is going to be happen tomorrow. Do you really going to enjoy it ??? I never do. I like surprises..
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
i believe the right time for marriage is when you can pay for the bills and you are really sure that your partner is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life.
• India
24 Jan 07
Wow! Perfect Answer !!!!!!! I think it includes almost everthing. Thank you ! Take care!
@gangasa (220)
• India
23 Jan 07
no way yaar there is no place in india where such thing happens if u know the details please give me about that..
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
For me its personal level of maturity and stability of a person.A person which is matured and stable can face a new world of married life.
• India
24 Jan 07
That's the good answer.