Why do girls cry when relationship ends?
By bench73
@bench73 (28)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 8:09pm CST
Why do girls cry when relationship ends?
i admit i cried the last time i fall in loved..the guys are the first one to made their courtship to us which means we are the one to be love first? nah.... guys am i right? ^^ But the sad part is when we fall, we fall so deep.
we love guys more than they can love us,we can give more than guys can give us... Guys are dying to be with us during courtship but, we would die just to keep them and be with them in the relationship...now why we know why tears fall even if guys don't deserve it...
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@linepau1 (188)
• Canada
23 Jan 07
My relationship ended 20 days ago. We dated for 3 years (which is so why I'm still counting XD). It really hurt because we still care for each other and I would still like to be with them rather than be apart like this. That's why I cry. Each relationship is different. We all cry for different reasons. Maybe he or she was stupid and cheated on you, or really hurt you in some way? Or it was good, but just wasn't going to work out in the end?
Don't underestimate guys though. They can love deeply as well, and when we break up with them it hurts just as much. They feel just as strongly as we do, but sometimes don't show it as much. They're sometimes stronger that way and better and hiding their emotions.
The problem is, no one really notices that about guys anymore. They're expected to be strong, but we are all humans and we all become weak sometimes.
Some guys are so worth the tears. You just have to learn which ones are really worth the trouble.
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@linepau1 (188)
• Canada
23 Jan 07
I'm sorry if I misinterpret your comment. I can't really understand your english that well. I'm sorry.
If he's your first I wouldn't worry about it. It's easy for a relationship to end, but it takes work to keep them going. I know it's hard, my last relationship was my first as well, so I do know how it feels for you right now.
I suggest getting a big cup of hot chocolate with lots of whipped cream and watching a good movie =) It might not solve the issues forever, but it's good for an hour or two. Soon you'll meet this awesome guy and you'll be fine again.
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@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 07
I am in relationship for 4 years..he is my first love.. we broke up last year (June). He cries...thats what I cant believe until now! he love me so much,I think.. so, we decide to continue this relationship and we hope it will ended with a great wedding! so, guy also can cry and show his love..but difficult to see.
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@ndraj_2006 (1422)
• India
23 Jan 07
Please dont say that girls love guys more than they can love girls. when a man loves a from a heart he will sure remember her till the end of his life. he will do anything for her love. but, when his heart is broken he is the most sufferer.
But, guys are too shy then girls when it comes to reveal their problems & emotions so, they dont cry. I have gone through this i really cried when i was alone but, never revealed it to someone or cried infront of someone.
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@ndraj_2006 (1422)
• India
23 Jan 07
It also depends on girls to understand that the guy is just flirting or really loveing her.
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@sarfaraz_ahmedh (171)
• India
23 Jan 07
i think it is there nature to cry when they are in sad or depressed moods.but in the lighter note i think guys will be crying during their relationship snice there respective girfriends could have made there life hell and after that it is their turn to cry.
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@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 07
think.. no need to cry its suppose to make u stronger.. i know its hard.. but no point of crying.. i myself have gone through 2 times. but, i just think positive and optimistic. i must go on. my life is far. far.. away...to go! yet, i now married and have lovely husband and baby 6 month old. get up and move all! love ya...!!
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
We cry because we fall in love.We fall in love because that is what our heart feels.Sometimes, we keep ourself too attached to our partner that lead us into brokenhearts when our relationship ended.Sad but true!!!Everything is just temporary,we need to prepare always..and most of all, lets not give all our love to one person...We must love ourself first before others!!!
@sassygrace (84)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
i think girls cry because we offer our life for the relationship.. girls usually do fight in a relationship but what's the sense of fighting? if a guy left you for someone/something.. some how u will just feel that you are just fighting for nothing...
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
23 Jan 07
just like you, when i fall inlove, i fall inlove 100%. i give my all and ofcourse, i expect him to love me in return, too.
however, things do not always work the way we want them to work. and our expectations just get to waste.
i cry after breaking up and for me, it's the best way to get up from pain. it's the best way to pour out my painful feelings.
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
It is actually healthy to do that, you can even scream out loud if you want to rather than just keeping them inside you. greetings. : )
@faylinn_chaeli (1619)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Well girls are very emotional, we cry because sometime we think that we are so foolish to have trusted someone that really doesn't deserve someone like us. We also cry because finally we realized that everything is over, anyway after crying it is easier to move on.
@rsa101 (38115)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I guess you girls are very emotional and you really go deep into a relationship that's why when it ends whether we deserve it or not you tend to fall back to those memories and held onto it longer than we guys. you treasure your feelings even if it does not deserve to be treasured.
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
because the wound is so deep and we just can't deny the fact that even we are the one who call it off, we love the guy in the deepest of our heart. and the fact that women are emotionally attached to the relationship.
@crystalhailie (147)
• United States
23 Jan 07
i think that you should be more understanding and not be so mean sound ing and all girls dont derserve tears people like you deserve meaness i mean you are probally mean and selfish and dontthink about noone
@denden (802)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
not always girls cry at the end of relationship because we dont know our destiny so i think he's not for you but if you find the right guy for you, you will be happy and it ends up living happily.
@UnAUnO (106)
• United States
24 Jan 07
you dont need to be depressed over that guy you should go out and explore the world theres plenty of men out there and beleive it or not theres good ones out there.you dont need a man to be happy.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Jan 07
girls cry coz of a feeling of frustrations, anger , guilt or happiness on what had happen to their relationship..its very natural to cry and a healthy one...
@rajucrazyboy (391)
• India
16 Sep 07
I don't know may be some girl should answer this question.I think girls are sensitive to their surroundings.
@rajarani (106)
• India
23 Jan 07
girls are cry when the relationship ends because when they fall in love they just forget every thing & they truly love that guy & share every secreat of their life & girls are watching thir future form their boyfriend point of view they just plan their beautiful future but when the relation ship ends they find all the planing is west & their dreems are broken due to this girls are cry but i don't think that only girls are cry when relationship ends some time boys are also cry when they fail in love don't you think so
@sensesfail (2251)
• India
23 Jan 07
This answer may sound stupid but i think its the truth.Girls cry after the end of a discussion b'cuz guys cannot cry.Guys express this depression in a different way by not responding to others properply,having sleepless nights,etc...
Remember a guy cannot be called a guy if cries for everything?
@Hawaiiblue (422)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 07
hi, bench73...i think because girl still don wan end the relationship and girl pay out so much and get break only..not only girl cry..boy also will cry when relationship end....
@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Sep 08
This is because girls or women have a great sense in emotional aspects. They cry just to express their feelings inside their heart. This is good because of this the heartaches releases and the emotional side of being a women also releases. Meanwhile, Boys or men merely cried because the natural side of men are not emotional.