What the husband does behind his wife's back

United States
January 22, 2007 10:05pm CST
Don't you feel burdened when you are keeping a secret that involves a husbands fidelity to his wife? If your friend's husband told you a secret that involved his faithfulness to their relationship, and you were asked to keep it and not let your friend know, wouldn't you feel guilty? Isn't it just like you persuading her husband to fool around? Should I let my friend know or not? I am just worried that I might be the reason that they argue and I'm gonna be placed in a very difficult situation.
2 responses
• China
23 Jan 07
dont ever tell her,she will hate you for it,but instead see if you can talk some sences into your friends husband.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
23 Jan 07
well, i would try to talk to him to get him to stop and fess up on his own. and if he wouldn't i will be forced to. espeically if the wife is my friend. i won't let my friend get hurt like that. if i was in her situation, i would rather have my husband tell me he cheated himself (more as soon as he did it because i know it was just an impulse thing) then hearing it from someone else. to me, if he admits it to me himself, it shows how sorry he really feels, though if someone else tells me then i know he's not that sorry and will probably continue doing it.