So Happy I'm married!

United States
January 22, 2007 10:06pm CST
When I go (which is like once a year or two) to clubs and see how people who barely know each other grind all over each other not even knowing their names half the time I think to myself "man I'm glad I'm Married!" I'd hate to be in the single game now. The things I'd have to do to get attention. I'm just not that type of person. I have no rhythm so I wouldn't be able to dance seductively for anyone so I'd pretty much be out of the game right there. I've been married for 7 years and a lot of it has been rough and I questioned whether we would make it but boy I'm glad I have that husband there to make me miserable lol! I'm glad I have someone to come home to and cook supper for and watch tv with. I'm so thankful that he's there and I DON'T have to dance seductively for him (infact I'm often encouraged not to). Are you single? Do you go out to clubs and 'grind' to meet someone? if so why? if you are married, what are you thankful for in your marriage?
1 response
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
23 Jan 07
When I went to clubs, it wasn't to look for anything serious. Just for some dancing fun. People seriously go to clubs to try to pick up actual dates? I think that's one of the worst places to possibly try and pick anyone up. Even a bar is better than the club! I'm single, but I'm happy that way. I don't want a partner. If I go out to a club, I'm just going for fun.
• United States
23 Jan 07
thanks for posting! I agree with you, i would not want to find someone where the alchohol is fluent and you can barely hear someone over the music. I found my hubby at work/school/church. we met in highschool but i hated him, worked together a few years later but i quit and then met back up in church lol! you think it was meant to be?