who will you choose? the one you love? or the one who loves you?

@abi1005 (194)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 3:49am CST
im just wondering what other thinks.. :)
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9 responses
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I will not choose, for love comes naturally to each and everyone of us. Having an option like that would only make things more complicated, and might end with a wrong decision that would make things worse. I believe that by having same thoughts and mutual feelings are the most important aspect in looking for love.
@nvtellan (1907)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Very well said and I agree with this poster. But if I will be given the same choice, I'll prefer to be with someone that I love. It doesn't matter if she'll love me in return as long as what I'm feeling towards her is true.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
wow...you must be a hopeless romantic like me.. :)
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@Zhanec (1652)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 07
this is a tough question to me.I dont know what to choose.i think i prefer to be with the one i love.
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@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
same with me..i prefer to live with the one i love. i guess you're also a hopeless romantic.. :)
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
same with me..i prefer to live with the one i love. i guess you're also a hopeless romantic.. :)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
well for me i would choose the one that loves me, i would rather spend my life with someone who loves me and i would sacrifice my happiness for that person. and who knows maybe someday i will learn to love that person... ^_^
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@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
thanks! :)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
If one chooses the one he loves, boy, that's absurd. If one chooses the one who loves him, that is even more absurd. How could one be with someone at most of his moments with somebody he doesn't love? That's unthinkable! Now think of the partner of the one who chose the one he loves but doesn't love him in return. Wouldn't he be in the same predicament as the other one? Love is a two-way relationship, remember that. One must tie up with somebody he loves who must love him in return. If he can't find this person now, he must not push it. The day will come eventually when he meets the right person to spend the rest of his life with.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
wow! thanks for the response.. i appreciate it.. :)
@raghwagh (1528)
• India
23 Jan 07
I think the best option is one who loves you.
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@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
thanks for the response.. :) but why do you think it is the best option?
@faye_co (38)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
Well I'm a hopeless romantic person, I'm the kind of person who is willing to do everything for the sake of my guy. But then, if the fate doesn't permit, or if I already did my best but still nothing happens. Well maybe that's the time I would let myself be with someone who loves me. Yes, I will be unfair to myself but I would rather be unfair to myself than to be unfair to someone I love. On the contrary, I think it is also a case to case basis.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
thanks for sharing..good to find a hopeless romantic like me here.. :)
@lkbooi (16100)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 07
I think the difference between the one you love and the one who loves you is that we can do anything to the one we love. The one who loves you also can do all sorts of things for you. So if you want to enjoy how you are to be served like princes then you can choose the one who loves you. I would rather choose the one I love and he love me too.lol:)
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
thanks for the reply..
@hottie0728 (1732)
• United States
26 Feb 07
I will definitely choose the one I love because I would be happier on just loving him. In return he will love me too since I am easy to love, lol.
@abi1005 (194)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
same here.. i would prefer to live with the one i love...thanks for the reply..
@raveena (1355)
• India
26 Feb 07
Well, of course mutual love is the only way to go if someone wants to get married but for the hypothetical question you asked I would marry the one who loves me because I know I can't not to love anyone who loves and cares for me, but if I marry the one I love and she doesn't love me I can't guarantee that I can make her to love me and it would be a miserable life especially if she is in love with someone else.