You are the one who makes your own destiny but...

Very good deep thinking. So, we make our choices, but the things that come indirectly from those choices, still have an impact on us, is destiny? Oh man I think I just messed it up. I should leave the thinking to you and I will just set here and say, "Yeah". :-)

I like what you said here. It's sort of along the lines of what I feel and believe in, as well. And I am trying very hard to follow the path of destiny that I'm meant to be on. If some opportunity comes up in life that I feel I am meant to take, even if it seems incredibly hard, I now try to do it. In the past I didn't, and there are things that i regret that i wish I had been able to do. But I just wasn't ready. However, this year I can sense that I am meant to be changing and becoming less shy. This is something that i have struggled with all of my life, but it seems like now that I am finally becoming ready to change, opportunities are popping up all around me to help. Maybe not so much right this minute, but in the past couple of months. And I know that more is coming. I really love watching my life unfold. I just wish that it were easier to follow the path that I think I am meant to be on. I have been shy for so long. I hope I can find the strength to change.

I believe that there is a plan, and we make choices that can influence these plans by the creator.

I agree your opinion. We live in a complex relation, there are so many people can affect us, we cannot make all the decision by ourselves. we have to think about the other's thought. especilly for parent, I have to obey my parent, I don't want my mother and father crying for me. the best way to make them happy is to live according their willing. I know we must seek ourselves life, I will try my best to do.