having kids

Egypt
January 23, 2007 3:20pm CST
what do u think is the perfect time 4 a new couple 2 have kids is that when they r just married or after 1 yaer or after that
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sedel1027
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
23 Jan 07
In my opinion, it is best to wait. The first year of a relationship and a marriage are tough enough without having a kid to cause more heacahe. Even if you are in a long term relationship and get married, there is usually still a rough pacth at the beginning.
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rbharris1984
@rbharris1984 (27)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I dont think theres a certain time. Just whenever it feels right. Whenever you ready.
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DRoddy77
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I dont think there is one certain time period to give. Everyone is different. Every couple is different. What might be good for one couple may not be for another. The couple has to decide when it's time for themselves.
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mergl81
@mergl81 (195)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I think it's better to wait to have kids. That way you get enough time together to enjoy being husband and wife before you add on a big responsibility. I think the quality time for just the two of you will help your relationship become even better.