Why do people lie?

United States
January 23, 2007 5:21pm CST
I don't get why people lie. All it does is put stress on your sholders, you have to worry about someone finding out the truth, hurting someone, ect. Its just a whole bunch of dramma. It just doesn't make any sense. Why not just be honest and get it off your chest. Yeah you might hurt someone with the truth at first but they feel alot better because you were honest. If you look at it this way, people hurt alot more when you have lied to them and they find out the truth on their own then you telling them the truth right away. Have you ever been caught in a lie or been lied to?
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8 responses
@naadia (828)
• India
11 Feb 07
i don't know.i don't lie to hurt anyone.sometime i have to lie say when i go for a film without saying to my mom,then i have to say some lie like we were doing some combine studying or like that.it will not cause any harm to anyone.so harmless lie is not a bad thing!but there are some who lie whenever they talk!i am afraid of this guys and gals!
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
there is nobody in this world who doesn't lie for once in their life. people lie because it is a natural defense that a man can do for his own sake or for the sake of others. trying to cover up things so that he may still be looking real nice to other people. lie is just a natural human behavior.
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@weemam (13372)
27 Jan 07
I hate lies and would forgive my children anything but lies as they get out of hand , I am glad to say they have now brought their children up the same way . xx
• India
26 Jan 07
lie - lie is a bad habbit
Lie is a bad habit in life i have seen lot of persons continuing their life with such type of nonsense habit the parents must try to say the child not to continue that.
@meoasis (720)
• Nepal
24 Jan 07
because they are not sure of themself about anything
• United States
25 Jan 07
I have been caught in a lie before and its much harder on the person if you lie so I learned my lesson. I now believe that no lie is good even if it is a "white lie" if the person that asked you the question didn't want to know the truth they shouldn't have asked. Also, friends should know that what you say in honesty is for their best even if the truth hurts. They should be secure enough in the relationship to know that what you say is out of love and not to intentionally hurt. I would expect the truth out of any question I ask because I ask because I need to know so I can fix the situation if I am in the wrong or confirmation if what I have asked or done is right.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
23 Jan 07
The liers have several motives, common ones are: 1. they lie to make fun 2. they lie to avoid punishment or questions 3. they lie to postpone payment 4. they lie because their friends or relatives or bosses told them to tell a lie. Any other category?
@mrscinxav (118)
• United States
23 Jan 07
because they dont have the guts to face the reality