Will you risk your life for someone you dont know??

@bhawnam (1436)
India
January 24, 2007 3:11am CST
I was talking to a friend a few days back and she said something which made me think a lot. She said thai she cares only aboout her family and no one else.. rest anyone may live or die it doen not affect her.. I argued with her for making such a harsh statement and she said that she will not stop living if someone she does not know is suffering. I thaught over it a lot and then realised that i dont think this way.. if need be i'll put my life at stake to save a person even if i dont know him/her. Will you???
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18 responses
@Rumple (301)
• South Africa
24 Jan 07
I would attempt to save someone if i knew i could. Otherwise it would play on my mind forever. Its funny you brought this topic up because i actually did save someone the other day. I was at the beach with some friends and there was a really bad current going out to see... i got a bit stuck in it and was getting worried so i started swimming back into shore but then i heard someone screaming for help. I couldnt help but swim to their aid, i was a bit scared because i have heard of people trying to rescue people at see and the person being rescued drowns the rescuer, luckily this didnt happen and i managed to pull him to shore. I guess all those mornings training in the pool paid off at school ;)
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
25 Jan 07
yes you are right.. if we dont act within time then it keeps on bugging us the rest of our lives.. and i must congratulate you for the bravery you've shown.. in such a condition ppl take too much time to think whether to go or not.. hats off to you..!!
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
It's not so selfish but it's the most reasonable way to do for the cause that to learn what is the meaning of love you must love your self first. And if you are willing save lives you mustn't risk you live only to save them instead try to live to save him/her
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@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
24 Jan 07
What you are saying is selfish.. if everyone just cares about saving his own life we will all die, there will not be soldiers defending your country if it gets invaded and no fireman will come to save you if there was a fire in your house .. I'm glad that only few people think like this..
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
24 Jan 07
even i agree with free soul.. maybe you are more practical but still we are human beings and not animals.. we are a superior race.
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
sorry maybe because of my comment its just that i based my comment to my personal experience just want you to know I risked my life many time for many people but what i get for it nothing and they even complain on why did I did that .....huh wait the minute why am i telling this never mind i just sorry ok
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
if the situation calls for it why not, right? Your friend's idea is just his principle and belief as of the moment. No matter what his beliefs are there's always this part of us to extend help to those in need.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
2 Feb 07
yes you are right one part in us says to go for it and the other one says not to go ahead... it is that which voice do we listen to..!!
@lauriefnp (5111)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Yes, I would also do the same thing. I feel like it is natural to want to help somebody who is in danger, but I guess a lot of people would disagree. If there was a situation where it was blatantly obvious that someone could not be saved, I might reconsider it. For example, if a building was on fire and was so engrossed in flames that even the firefighters were pulled out, but someone was obviously in the building, I would not try to enter the building. Other than that type of situation, though, I think like you do. Humans need to care about other humans. All life is precious. This makes me think of all of the U.S. military who are overseas now risking their lives to protect the country and all Americans. Where would we be if they weren't doing this? And they don't know me...
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
3 Feb 07
yes you are right all life is precious.. i've already marked the best response but i want to say that your response really made me feel the happiest.. thanx for responding...!!
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
4 Feb 07
Taking risk is good and for some one u dont know is really a boon. but taking risking life for some one u dont know is some thing to think. as u also have ur own people for u for life so just take max to save you but do not go back to take risk for others. Its is really a boon to take risk for others. But try to get ur life at the same time. Take care and have fun. risking is real fun in life. but risking life is not fun.
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
4 Feb 07
your poinrt is valid but will we be alble to live with this constant bugging in our mind that we did'nt do something and someone lost a lot... maybe people can but i cannot turn a blind eye to this.. i think i wont be able to face myself in the mirror..
@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I will probably not risk my life for someone I don't know. Call it anything you like but what important with me is my grandmother , I will risk everything for her even my own life. I guess helping other people is a must but giving them your life is another matter. I am maybe selfish but would you really do it in real life?. I need to live for I am still needed by a lot of people, those people who had no directions, if I will die I will never had a chance to help this people because I had offered my life to only one.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
28 Jan 07
ya you have a point.. even i have many ppl in my life for whom i mean the world but still i think i will risk my life for a human being coz i think these ppl who mean the world to me really understand me and will be proud of me and if ever i turn my back on any such situation then how will i ever look in the mirror... i dont know..!!
@chardyme (1631)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
it depends if the person you are going to save deserves to live, example is a political icon.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
25 Jan 07
ha ha ha.. ya you are right but still i think at that time i wont let a bad person die.. who am i to judge anyone..!!
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I couldn't be like your friend. I see so much in this world I'd love to fix and know I can't because of means and/or opportunity. I would love to be able to help others more and if it came down to it I'd like to think I'd put another's life before my own. When I first read the discussion all I could think of was my neice when she was very little. We'd gone to the store and on the way out I realized somehow or another she didn't have her shoes on. I asked her where they were and she said she'd left them in the store in case some little girl needed. That really touched me at the time and still does. I wish we could all think that way, to help another when they might need it. Not for rewards or recognition but just because.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
25 Jan 07
children are like that.. simple helping and good at heart but as we grow we forget these things.. luckily not all of us.. this little incident also reminds me of my younger sister's one such action.. one day we went to a party with our parents... outside the premises there was a poor man sitting with his little daughter.. it was a cold winter night and that poor man could only afford an old and torn blanket for his child.. We all were enjoying in the party and then i noticed that my sister was not wearing the jacket that she bought two days back..( that day in the shop she created a very big scene on having that jacket) i asked her and she told me she gave it to the girl we saw while coming in.. this act of her's touched me so much.. and not only me but everyone over there..
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
I think we must hear what our heart say. For example, when we see someone who try to rob in a bus. We must try to stop that. And there's so much way to do that. But when after our effort we los our lives, at least we die with do something good in the end of our live in this world. Although it will be sad, but our family will be proud for us too. And it's honour too for us and for our family
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
27 Jan 07
yes you are right.. it will be indeed a matter of honour.. or else one will end up living the whole life with a burden that we did not do anything and that one is a coward.
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
24 Jan 07
This a very selfish and cruel thing for your friend to feel and say.. She should hope that people don't think like her when she needs help..I do care for all people and in fact I did endangered myself at least one time for people I don't know.. luckily it all ended well.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
24 Jan 07
yes even i thaught so and i am happy to know about you.. Till the time ther are ppl like you and me i think love and humanity will live
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• Nepal
25 Jan 07
Nah i dont think dat i would mah life for whom i dont know..
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
10 Feb 07
ok.. thanx for your response.
@jobinbabu (151)
• India
25 Jan 07
i cant say anything because i havnt been in such asituation .without being in such a situation how can anybody say anything,unless we have done a thing we cant say that we have done it.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
8 Feb 07
well i think you are right.. there is surely a huge difference between thinking and actually doing anything... in our thaughts we always think that we'll do this and we'll do that but it takes courage to answer a call and risk all you have...
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
24 Jan 07
If i like the concept which will feel better to me if he/she is unknown also i will help and risk my life.If i like some one i will do anything for them.
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
1 Feb 07
ok .. that means you will decide at that time if you want to help or not.. fair enough..thanx for responding
@rein2410 (809)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
Yes, even it is stranger, they are still our kind. Human kind and still was created by God. If you are risking your life for your families, thats suppose to be done. But for stranger, you will get a greate credit for that and God will award you with something great for what you have done. My answer is yes!! I would risk my life for someone that I dont even know if that can save that person. I think you friend idea is selfish as you cannot live with just your family. you need friends and community.
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@nandans (1160)
• India
25 Jan 07
Don't know.. Depends on the person, if he/she is inncocent and can't help themselves, i will definitely help them.
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@arunk7319 (1281)
• India
24 Feb 07
Yes of-coures if a person is in danger we never bothered about risk involved and we only try to the rescue the life of the person. We knew we are at risk only when a third person who vitnesses the incident shouts us at. Just imagine Tsumani, earth quakes lot of people who have lost their families still try to resue the unknowns who are at risk.
@omidmao (743)
• India
25 Jan 07
to be honest , NO i wont , one should have great personality to do this ,, good luck
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• South Africa
25 Jan 07
I Don't quite know what i would do in that situation. In fact just the other my brother and i were talking and he said if we happened to be in a robbery then he'd trip my mum so she would go down. I suppose if it were my family i would stand in front of them to protect them. It would be a natural instinct. But risking my life for someone i just met i don't think i'm that chivalrous to be honest. I would perhaps help until the point where my life comes first. selfish but true.