invading private property

Philippines
January 24, 2007 4:32am CST
are you checking your bf/hubby/gf cellphone? or their email? if not what can you say to those people who does that?
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5 responses
@Agimat (355)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I don't check on my wife. I trust her completely. As to people who do that I think that in some cases it's caused by insecurity. Sometimes their partner has been unfaithful in the past so they start checking emails, phones just to make sure it doesn't happen again.
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
yah your right both of partners should hace trust in each other.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Nov 12
What makes you think they would be doing it to check on each other? I imagine I would be doing it (if I had a wife/girlfriend ) to check on the safety of my wife/girlfriend---to make sure there aren't any 'persistent Lotharios' (like I'm sure some boyfriends have seen ME as, while I drool over their beautiful girls) out there trying to steal her away from me. Not that I wouldn't trust her, but some womanizers (myself included, a long while ago) are so empathetic as to make women feel they NEED to 'succumb to their desires.'
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
I think that there is nothing wrong with reading eachothers email's... The only ones who hide there stuff are hidding something.
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i dont have boyfriend yet if ever i have a boyfriend i will check my boyfriend's cellphone. i will trust my boyfriend but its my nature to check my boyfriends cellphone.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
no..i dont check on my boyfriends personal stuff like email or celphones. we've gone through it..and i come to realized that doing such thing will do no good to both of you. It will surely be the topic of your arguments that shall lead you to senseless discussion. I think the bottom line is you just have to trust each other
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• India
24 Jan 07
Hi Shinichi!! In my view, this is not the right thing to do if you are in a relationship. I would never do this with my partner. If you indulge in such an activity the life of your relationship would get shortened. Please keep away from these activities and enjoy love and trust. I mean no offense to anyone but if you are victim to any sort of insecurity regarding your partners behaviour please talk to him/her directly and resolve the matter. It is in the best interest of you both. " Love is the name of God & Faith defines God" Cheers {:-))