Do You Have Incosiderate Friends?

United States
January 24, 2007 3:40pm CST
Right now I am sitting here waiting for a "supposed" friend to get here to help him. He was supposed to be here by noon and it is almost 4:00 P.M. I had to rescedule my week to do this for him. He bought a house and hired me to do design changes and colors ( I painted the whole thing too, inside and out). The agreement was that I would get contractors to fix the house, do some of the work and we would sell it and split the money. He lied and didn't have the finances to do this, so he insisted on doing some of the work. The way to make money flipping a house is to get it done as fast as possible and put it up for sale. He dragged this on for 10 months. Now there's no money and he's supposed to give me enough money to pay my bills until the house sells. He has not done that and I'm out. He hasn't had a regular job for a year and a half because he is too lazy. He's 46 and lives with his parents...Now he is trying to refinance on the house (with no money, job, and bad credit from using credit cards and not paying on time) and needs to put furniture in it to seem like he lives there. He also had to take it off the market so a loan can go through. I am sitting here with a bed, dresser, couch, tables to loan him and load them in a truck...go to the house and assemble them, and he is 4 hours late and still not here. Do you have stories about friends that take advantage of you?
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@lilone (169)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Wow thats a tough one.It sucks that he isnt following through on his part of the deal.I hate when your friends only care about them.Sometimes they think that only their time is importants and you can sit around waiting for them untill it suits them.It makes me mad.I have yelled at a friend for doing that kinda thing to me.Everyones time is valuable...people need to realize that.
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• United States
24 Jan 07
I know...he just got here right now and I'm so mad, I'm upstairs. My mom is here to help too and she's talking to him. All he is is full of excuses! I'm shaking so bad right now that I even spelled Inconsiderate wrong on my post.
• United States
26 Jan 07
OUTCH! wow thats just really really bad! im sorry your having to go through this! ive had 'friends' take advantage of me as well but never to this extent! i hope it all works out for you in the end!
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• United States
26 Jan 07
Thank you dreamingmyth.
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
25 Apr 07
oh my god...sure this is not one of those people we would like to meet and sure he is not a friend, indeed...I hope you are not experiencing too money loss because of this crazy and untrustfull person..world is full enough of people like this who betrays us and try to cheat us in many ways..I hope you'll manage to have a bit of the money you put in this affair in the end.I have lot of bad experiences to share..I think like everybody because life is a matter of respect and having one and only word for me but this does not seem to be the rule for people. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. take care my friend
@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I would be rather angry I think. I also would tell him, if he ever gets there, that you won't be rearranging your schedule to help anymore. Gently explain to him that your friendship means a lot, but his taking advantage of you is just not acceptable. You are worth more than that.