Stay with the one who loves you or go back to the one you love?

Philippines
January 24, 2007 10:00pm CST
During my teen years, there was this persistent suitor who showered me w/ all the love & affection he could give but sad to say, i never felt anything for him because i liked someone else who loved someone else too. i tried to get his attention but he seemed blinded by the love he had for girl. unfortunately, she did not have any feelings for him at all. well, you make think how funny things go around in circle. maybe, you just cant dictate what your heart would feel when you're younger & later on as one matures, you now realized that those things were just infatuation or as many would call, a puppy love. well, i'm glad that i dont have that dilemma now because i am with the one i love & who in turn loves me back, my husband. but, if i would be placed in that predicament again, i'd choose to be with the one i love because it always feels good to love & it is part of loving that we endure the bad times & making little sacrifices but also feel the emotional high enjoying the good times with the one we love. how about you? who would you choose?
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
i would stay with the one who loves me. someone said that the only person you can change or control in a relationship is yourself. i'll never know if the person i love will ever love me back and it will probably be easier for me to learn to love the person who loves me than making someone else love me when he doesnt ..
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@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
I'd go back to the one I love. Im the type of person who fights for my love, but I still know when to give up and stop fighting. I'd rather be with the one I love, than be with the one who loves me. I should see who's worth the fight.
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@gemini13 (333)
• India
27 Jan 07
in ur case bcoz ...the person u love is totally ignorant about u and since he is in love with some one else..he cannot reciprocate ur love...and since u r in love with him u cannot reciprocate to the other guy....so u hv two options...forget everything...wait for ur true love of ur life to come...or try to fall in love with some one who loves u..
@gemini13 (333)
• India
27 Jan 07
don't b with a guy whom u cannot love...do not pretend that u r in love...even if he loves u ..coz u will b wasting his feelings...there may someone made for him who would love him and only him...and don't worry ...god has made one guy for u too...who would love u..unconditionally and make u fall in love all over again...
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
thank you for your opinion. i appreciate it.
@shiela15 (286)
• Australia
27 Jan 07
That's a very difficult situation. I think deciding should consider who will be affected. What if you're already married and does have children? It is a sin. But if it's that you're a single maybe, you just have to be true to yourself. What life you really wanna have? What if the one you love is loving someonelse as you do the same with the one who loves you? Try to figure out whose the good person. Sometimes, we must not forget to use our head. It's not bad if you don't decide fully by heart. Because if it's only that your heart you are about to listen, you might get hurt time by time.
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
well, if one is already married, i guess the kids have to be considered when making decisions & i think a little sacrifice is needed for this decision.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Love is all about.. - In married life love must prevail
to make it successful.
As a man I would like to be with the woman whom I love because for me once the woman decided to be your wife it is imperative that she loves you. And married life will be strong when both are in love to each other.
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
yes, i definitely agree. if you truly love each other, nothing & no one can break u apart.
@alfa62603 (192)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I guess I'll just stay ith the one ho loves me...I made that choice, have to stand up for it.
• India
28 Jan 07
I would choose women who loves me, because love is mutual, if we love and the partner does not love then it is onesided and we will get frustrated at one point of time
@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
27 Jan 07
I would prefer to stay with someone that loves me. For me, I am a very complete person and can live falcutative life. I mean adapting myself to every situations. So, if i find myself with someone that loves me, i would in no time fall in love with the person and may eve love him or her more than the way he/she loves me.
@Multanee (268)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
stay with the one who loves me.
@anyutza (138)
• Romania
25 Jan 07
I don`t know if the one that I love doesn`t have eyes for me,whatever I do in order to buy his attention,I guess that I`ll choose the one who loves me,and try my best to love him too.If it doesn`t work,then I`ll search for another guy