Your wife/husband is not a virgin, what will be your reaction?

um ...none...people have a right to premarital s*x

yup it depends on the individual ur... coz if ur not virgin and expecting the other to be virgin its not fine... watever it may be be true and frank and be good to ur partner after marriage..forgot abt the past relationship...be good and tru after marriage..thhis is my view.

If i found out that my wife is not a virgin, then what I'll do is I don't get angry with her for not telling me before, but I keep my cool and ask her at sometime when she is in good mood about it, and after whatever answer she gives me, I would tell her that, Whatever had been your past, it is now past we should not look into it again anad again, Now I'll be faithful to you all my life and I expect you to be faithful with me. If there is any problem related to your past you can always have a chat with me over that.

friend it would really make me mad if i come to know my husband touched someone else.love apart but to love him,he should be honest first.at the first night where you come with lots of expectations and thay break it by saying such things,it willreally put a person down.he must be frank but before marraige and come up.telling after marraige is great cheating.

If you really love someone it doesnt really matter if she or he is a virgin because it is the who you wanted and not for that only.

Nothing is above love ,so if on the first night also u get to know about these things ,it may really upset you but you have to accept that and have to go ahead with that ,but it is better that it should be cleared before marraige but if not ,and the one u have married is your true love u can forgive them ,right?

If you love that person.... Just love him/her no matter what he/she is... like it say..."L'amour n'est pas parce que mais malgre", i love you no matter what.... not I love you bcos... so thats not a matter for me...:)

Personally, I really don't care. I'm not and I don't expect her to be, but then that is sort of the way the culture has gone here in the US.

It is not important, what is important will be the outcome of a long relationship. This question for boys are one sided. Most boys probably will select a lady that is a virgin and not asking if he is a virgin himself. Thanks and good day

i don't think this matters anymore. as long as you love your spouse. beside in whichevers case, i think you should have talked about it before getting married in the first place.

for me, i feel upset with him.. but, how to know men not a virgin anymore??? women suppose anyone know..but men??

i think it is no problem with this,just you two are true lover,and there is no legal recourse if you find that your bride is not a virgin,and you have to be sure beforehand of either if she is a virgin or not,or if you are prepared to accepted her/him as she/he is(forgiven).i dont think i have enough faith for,and has difficulties of its own.

It's not important, I hope what my husband and I make love before the marriage!

This should really be discussed before marriage. Along with whther you want kids, where you want to live etc etc. Honesty and frankness will help you more than expectations. I am not a virgin and I don't expect any partner I have to be. But that is my personal view.