falling in love with someone's wife

Malaysia
January 25, 2007 5:58am CST
last time a make the relationship with women that i already know she already married. at first, we just friend. but at the same time there are too many reason why i feel happy with her. she always ask me why i'm very kind to her. i said "no, nothing." i always advise her to take care her relationship to her husband. she told me "when i saw my husband i feel simphaty, i did something wrong behind him. but when i see you i feel more simphaty. you are lonely guy". i tried to make a joke, not to take serius on what she said. i said "oooo... this is because... you always with me" as a man, i must be able to control myself not to fall in love on this situation. she always told me "i don't know how when i meet you i feel happy" until one day she told me that she fall in love with me. she said "i know you also have same feeling but you didn't tell me". i look into her eyes. i dont know what to say. coz in fact she said the truth. if i were you what will you do?
3 responses
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Submit to God resist the evil and the devil will flee... Adultery is a sin. Go home and ask forgiveness to your wife. You will not be bless all your life but will face the circumstances all ur life, if you will go on or accept the love that was revealed by the other woman.
@smacksman (6053)
25 Jan 07
Did he say he was married? I missed that.
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
i'm not married yet.
• Japan
25 Jan 07
my advice is if you really love you should not do things to hurt her or break her family out. always put in your mind she`s married already and you should stop doing things that would let her heart fall into you. you are the one who is showing the interest and you are giving her a chance to fall into you. but as you have said that she is the one who told you that she is fallen unto you tell her that she should not give deep meaning to what the kindnes that you are showing to her. tell her that you just like her as friend and nothing more. think for her family they build it together and be broken,you dont want youself to be the reason for that right? you are single you can find another woman who is free and you can build your own family with other girl also.
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
thanks for your advice
@smacksman (6053)
25 Jan 07
She will eat you up and spit you out. She has been unfaithful to her husband before and she sounds like she is happy to do so again. So enjoy yourself but don't ask for, or expect any long lasting relationship. What she can do to her husband she can do to you.
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
well.. i'll think about it