friendship

July 1, 2006 8:50am CST
I have a girl friend. but now she is changing her attitude toward me, and telling me that she can only be my friend. what will i do.
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20 responses
@JoeyCa (1810)
• Belgium
28 Nov 06
Forget about here and look for a girl that truely loves you... you deserve better then that I'm sure xx
• India
25 Dec 06
first let me ask u somethin....how can u tell tht she is ur gal friend ha....see ..1st be slow and steady in raisin this kind of relationship...becas nowaydays many just come closer by lukin from distance and when they come closer feel to depart...its becas they assume and have perceptions tht he or she might be like this and when they realise or come to know tht he or she were not upto the expectation, try to quit ...but u know one among the both will have real luv becas u were into the nightmare that she or he should be mine ...thts what happened in your case...you really loved her but donno she didnt so...this might have happened due to infactution or to just spent time by sayin yeah i too have a boy friend ....okie forget it now comin to the point ...just ask yourself why she is not willin to accept u as her boyfriend...ask to your consciense ..sure you will get an answer...just try to be flexible to her ..accept her views and make her understand...see u cannot change your gud qualities for her and sure u must not change ...but sacrifice somethin to her if u can becas she is goin to be ur life..... ask her why she dont want u to be her boyfreind..if she tells u to get lost then ask her what made her to accept u as her boy friend forthese days and what the hell made her to say u bye now.... find out the solution for her disagreement ...see u know finding solution will really clear ur problem 99 %..and takin right decision with tht solution will give u 100% result... try ur level best to make her understand ...becas this problem raises between all the teens nowaydays...but final and ultimate answer is just drop her if she dont want to continue ...but prove her ur not cheap ....qualities ...yeah tht really matters ...also make her not to hurt one more again like this with ur kind and angelic heart...
• India
8 Jan 07
ek baar usse baat to kar ke dekho use samjhao aur phir bhi na mane to use chod do aur kar hi kya sakte ho|
• India
21 Nov 06
Has she ever promissed to marry you?
• India
7 Jan 07
Thnaks nilk
@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
9 Jan 07
Accept her proposal and look elsewhere too.
• Philippines
9 Jan 07
you should talk things over and see if theres something left worth coming back to. more than anything, you should learn to respect her decision, if she doesn't want to be with you anymore and you don't want to be with her as friends, then maybe it's time for you to let go.
@starpawan (176)
• India
7 Jan 07
hey dont force her to do anything. if she says No than its OK. you realise her that you are the right one for her. you always love her. donot get irritated with her. i am sure one day she will lov you. BEST OF LUCK.
@katyzzz (2902)
• Australia
7 Jan 07
Get another girlfriend
@mavn07 (15)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Been there before... Maybe she's simply going through a process of learning to be your girlfriend. I know it soiunds kinda hard to understand but maybe she's having a hard time adjusting to the fact that she now has a boyfriend. I think that best thing you could do is give her some time and space. Respect the way she's feeling right now and wait until she finally relizes what's going on. And if she doesn't then maybe is time to move on.
• India
6 Jan 07
dump her before she dumps u
• India
25 Dec 06
ha....see ..1st be slow and steady in raisin this kind of relationship...becas nowaydays many just come closer by lukin from distance and when they come closer feel to depart...its becas they assume and have perceptions tht he or she might be like this and when they realise or come to know tht he or she were not upto the expectation, try to quit ...but u know one among the both will have real luv becas u were into the nightmare that she or he should be mine ...thts what happened in your case...you really loved her but donno she didnt so...this might have happened due to infactution or to just spent time by sayin yeah i too have a boy friend ....okie forget it now comin to the point ...just ask yourself why she is not willin to accept u as her boyfriend...ask to your consciense ..sure you will get an answer...just try to be flexible to her ..accept her views and make her understand...see u cannot change your gud qualities for her and sure u must not change ...but sacrifice somethin to her if u can becas she is goin to be ur life..... ask her why she dont want u to be her boyfreind..if she tells u to get lost then ask her what made her to accept u as her boy friend forthese days and what the hell made her to say u bye now.... find out the solution for her disagreement ...see u know finding solution will really clear ur problem 99%..and takin right decision with tht solution will give u 100% result... try ur level best to make her understand ...becas this problem raises between all the teens nowaydays...but final and ultimate answer is just drop her if she dont want to continue ...but prove her ur not cheap ....qualities ...yeah tht really matters ...also make her not to hurt one more again like this with ur kind and angelic heart...
@emarie (5451)
• United States
28 Nov 06
just let her, she needs time to work things out. if it was meant to be then she'll come back, if not, then you can still move on.
@AzzamAli (138)
• Pakistan
28 Nov 06
friendship is very good relation it is very difficult to make good friends these days so always remain sincere with yr friends i have some girl friends and boy friends and all of them are very carrying and loving
• United States
28 Nov 06
u can take an other one who loves you.
@StarBright (2799)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Sounds like she is trying to let you down easy. It may well be another guy. She likes you still, but is not in love with you anymore. If you can be friends with her, it is good. Otherwise, give it up! Turn it loose! Let it go!
• United States
28 Nov 06
has something changed in her life recently that could be why what about age she could still be 'finding' herself. Or sad to say she could just be doing it on purpose.
@aekaplan (24)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Listen man, all women are the same. Just drop this chick, and don't look back. If you have a girlfriend, you're obviously at least semi-attractive with a decent personality, and you'll be able to find someone else. Don't waste time trying to fix a situation that will only waste your time, emotions, and energy.
@desiret (2122)
• Italy
25 Nov 06
if she will consider you just a friend, the best thing to do is leave her!
@kabalweg (69)
• Philippines
25 Nov 06
You have to prefer yourself for the worst.
• United States
25 Nov 06
I guess youre gooing to be her friend or be without because you cant make her love you.Show her what no other man can, and maybe she will see the loss.
@sassyces (1604)
• Philippines
21 Nov 06
hh - hh
I think it's pretty obvious that she wants to end your relationship as a couple, hence, her wanting to be just friends. I think you should communicate with her and try to clear things up if there's still a chance for the two of you to rekindle the flame in your relationship, thus, making steps towards that goal. But if all ways fails then I think it's time for u to let go. At least you tried to make things work before giving up.
@sedel1027 (17851)
• United States
1 Jul 06
Talk to her about what is going on and why she just wants to be friends. Actually listen to her, I am sure she has a good reason.Do not get defensive with her, hear her out and discuss what she says. Become friends with her. Stay in contact and create a good friendship.