what do you feel "love aftermarriage" or "love and marry"

I prefer arranged marriage. You see love marriage is suitable only for those persons who can have love or who can find love partners themselves. But what about those persons who are of shy nature like me. If they dont find love partner, they will never get married. So, I prefer arranged marriage.

i believe in both but would prefer to love and marry. i cannot marry a stranger and then suddenly fall in love with him gradually. its lot more fun to fall in love first, carry on for some time and then get married!