I want to have a baby
By tashirag
@tashirag (8)
India
January 25, 2007 10:34am CST
I never thought i would be saying this one day.I am 29,a professional and desperately wishing to get pregnant.I have been trying for the past 6 months.till now i had been busy with my postgraduation and career.middle age is creeping up to me and i am worried about my chances to have a baby and all the complications that increases with age .all i can think of while walking down the road or going to a supermarket is how lucky those ladies are to have kids.my genuine advice to all of you ladies 25 yrs out there,do all what you want to achieve in life but make time to have a cuddly bundle of joy too, before its gets too late.
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@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
It's not to late for you to have a baby. It's great to see that you are a professional and have taken care of the other things you wanted to achieve in your life. But you still have plenty of time to have that wonderful bundle of joy and for those who are forced to wait until later in life, I think it just makes you appreciate your baby more when the times comes. Good luck!
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@Cherry_Eve (285)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
Well, I hope you can have a baby soon. As for me, I'm still 19 and am colleging. My boyfriend is 25 and he keep asking me to quit college and marry him, because he wants to have a baby. I'm very confused about this, because I think i'm not ready to have a baby yet. Therefore, I still want to finished my college.
I think you are great, to be a professional worker is a hard work. Good luck!
@julycaz007 (8)
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26 Jan 07
if you have any doubts at all do not listen to what your boyfriend wants.I was pregnant at 19,married at 20 and had two children by 21.I would not change anything now (been married 15 years) but sometimes I wish I had focused more on things I wanted to do first.If you know in your heart that this is not what you want then dont do it just for his sake.If he really wants this he will wait until you are ready.
@jamanrk786 (333)
• India
26 Jan 07
i came to see your words in the mylot site and you have possessing good career and as you are a professional" thik that what is good or bad if you dont know good or bad in your life ask your malaq(mind and sour)deffinitely it will guide with good posture' your point is lucky to have kids' for everyone' those people who want to maintain and lead a good life with kids' same like try to do in your part on moment of time'
good luck' try to do best if you have time permit'(after your professional course') if any mistaken in my words' really i am extremely sorry for that'
good luck' bye for now'
@camille101 (1025)
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jan 07
I thought I'm the only one. I, too is still wishing to get preggy as soon as possible. Been trying for long time now. I've got miscarriage in the past, but am still hopeful God will grant us a beautiful baby in the future.
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Well we have the same problem..all I need is to leave it to god and pray always. I am 29 years old now..but still were trying. don't lose hope. goodluck to us.
@jbones32103 (717)
• United States
26 Jan 07
You are right. There's nothing in this world better than having a baby. Hang in there with your situation. I know how you feel. I didn't think I could have children for ten years. Then all of a sudden with my second husband, I got pregnant after eight months of being with him. I use to go and look at all the baby things crying and wanting to be a mother. It's worth the wait. My son is three now. Watching him grow has changed my entire life. It's the best feeling in the world. When I gave up is when I got pregnant. Relax and enjoy trying. It'll happen. Good luck to you. Best wishes and happiness to you.
@hypervtec (18)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
just never lose hope for as long as you keep trying, there will come an unexpected time that your wishes come true.
as for our situation we've been married for almost six years now and still, god haven't provided us yet.
we've tried everything and doctors can't see any problem but we are not losing hope. maybe the time has not yet come for us to have a baby.
but for you, you have more time to get what you wanted.
goodluck to all of us wanting to have a baby.
@navaneeth (132)
• India
2 Feb 07
i agree with you. having your on kids is the most wonderful thing in this world. it makes you so happy. i want to have 3 of my own.
@jsgrand0 (246)
• United States
26 Jan 07
wow...your post really helped give me advice. I am 26 with 2 kids, however, I'd like to have 3. but also, i am really wanting to get on with getting my teaching degree. But i think that the 3rd baby is more important...i can always pursue my career later! thank you!
@smartcooldude1386 (286)
• India
2 Feb 07
hey i m a male but still i know how hounourful is it to be a mum.. so ur desperation is true as ur a lady.. and as per my knowlege its not yet to late for u to attain that status of being a mum ,, isnt it???
@er_gurinder (43)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
Hi, I am 25 and half as well and still me and my husband are just busy to get settled in life only, but your advise just alerted me to have a baby first.......
Is it really so complicated thereafter???
Pls let me know
@aitipamula (22)
• India
30 Jan 07
yes, u r right! i am 28, i have been trying for the past 1 year six months. i am so depressed at this time, all my friends and relatives are had kids. it is so painfull for me.
@sybertronankesh (42)
• India
26 Jan 07
I don't think so that it's too late.
You still have 3-4 years with you.
For more detail you have to consult some doctor.
He or she will tell you in detail.
And i have seen lot of people getting married at the age of 29 and above.
So there's is no problem with it.
@kareng (54553)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Your still in your prime! You have plenty of time to conceive. I would just say, relax and try not to dwell on it so much. You are stressing yourself out on it.
Let nature take it's course. There are lots of women in their 40's having babies now.
@stvenvoon (254)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
29 years.. It is not quite late if u start from now. Try to take more free time go out and find a really suitable boyfriend , I think for ur profesionnal, it is not too difficult to get married.
Hope u can success and have ur own family and children.
Live happily forever.
@OROKAM55 (121)
• United States
26 Jan 07
You are just 29yrs old, you are not old at all to think about getting too old to have a baby. Biologically, the best age to have a child is between 22 and 30. 30-35 is still a moderate age for having a child. You will begin to have some complication as from the age of 40 but even that does not apply to all people.
Relax your mind, and make sure you find a true love that you will share your love with and have kids together.
cheers
@momokoseiya (453)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I wish you luck with trying to have a baby! Children are truly a joy. I had my son when I was 22, and I think that was a good age. I am young enough to keep up with him and I can enjoy a nice long life with him (God willing). I reccomend having children at a young age, but not TOO young. I think you're at the right age.
@abimbola12345 (17)
• Nigeria
26 Jan 07
you are not too old to have a baby,and would like you to know that,a baby in not one of those degrees to be acquired.Its also best to have it with a father that accepts him and you.dont be desperate about it,have a calm mind and all would work together.
