How "believable" are you?

By Leca
@lecanis (16647)
Murfreesboro, Tennessee
January 25, 2007 8:02pm CST
I've noticed several discussions complaining that people post unbelievable stories just to get a lot of replies to them. I found myself wonderful "If I posted information about my own life online, how many people would believe it?" Granted, I'm not known to spew my entire personal history at the slightest provocation. Or none at all. However, on occasion I do ask questions relating to issues in my life, more in the interest of wanting other's opinions than wanting help for myself. I believe that if people need serious help with life issues, they should contact professionals or support groups that can help them. However, sometimes it's nice simply to find out what others think about your situation, or discuss the theories behind things. So my question here is this: If you posted your entire life story, how much of it do you think people would believe?
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
19 Apr 07
You know I started to think on that. Some of my life has been pretty boring where it would be very believable but then I think on other things. Some of those might seem like I'm making it up or maybe stretching the truth. I think some of it has to do with the fact when we see some things posted we don't want to believe it can happen. Just like when we see some news items. We know it can happen but we don't want to believe it has happened. That people in society can't do that or have it happen to them.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
19 Apr 07
With what has been happening in the last week I can understand that comment. There are things that occure that we just can't believe what we are hearing or seeing. We want to think someone made it up instead of it actually happening. It's easier to process I suppose.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
19 Apr 07
You have a really good point. There are things that we just don't want to believe could happen to people. Thanks for bringing that up! I know I've felt that way this very week, unfortunately.
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@darkzzt (757)
• Canada
6 Apr 07
if i posted my life story, certain people who are aware that there are liars in this world wont believe all of it. But i think that most people would believe it because anything you say you've done has probably been done before, unless it was totally ridiculous
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
"anything you say you've done has probably been done before" You know, that's a wonderful point. Thank you!
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
I think I'm guilty of ignoring that part I didn't like. I suppose that's bad, isn't it? I'm sure much of what I've done has fit under that totally ridiculous category too! How sad for us that we're making things up and don't even know it!
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
Very good points! I've often done things that I'm told are impossible. Like, um, still being alive for that matter! =p
@freak369 (5113)
• United States
7 Apr 07
LOL ... If I started posting some of the things that I have done in my life, chances are I would get into a lot of trouble. I have never been an angel but I've never taken things so far that I'd end up getting arrested. I guess some people need to feel like they are the center of attention or they have to come to places like myLot to get attention. If anything, I feel sad for them.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Apr 07
*giggles* I could be in trouble too. =p I guess for me the things I could get in trouble for border on vigilante acts. I have a bit of a superhero syndrome. I feel pretty sad for people like that too!
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Apr 07
*giggles* I could be in trouble too. =p I guess for me the things I could get in trouble for border on vigilante acts. I have a bit of a superhero syndrome. I feel pretty sad for people like that too!
@buldwgz (1489)
• United States
15 Apr 07
To me my life has seemed very boring for the most part, so I feel it would be very believable. Then, I share some stories with friends and realize that actually I haven't had a very boring life after all so I am not sure that everything would be believable. It is fun to share though.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Apr 07
It is fun to share, I agree. =) Haha, things that seem boring to me as well are often considered interesting to others. Then again, I often find myself intensely interested in the details of the lives of so-called "normal people", just because those lives are so different from mine. So surely everyone feels that way sometimes.
@MarkyB21 (1545)
13 Apr 07
I think most of my life is quite believable but there are a few events that I doubt anyone would believe if I posted them here. They are not things I'm likely to post anyway so there shouldn't be any problems with people not believing me - even if I chose to post them and people didn't believe me that's their problem really. The simple answer to you question is that people would believe most of my life story if I posted the whole thing.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Apr 07
Hehe that's a very good point. I need to make that my mantra or something. "It's their problem, not mine!" Thanks!
@MarkyB21 (1545)
14 Apr 07
It can be very hard not to worry about what other people think at times - I know I have trouble with it but if you know you're being honest and someone doesn't believe you, it really is their problem. Also, people can be very closed minded about lifestyles that are different to their own - once again that's their problem :-)
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@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
18 Apr 07
I think most of people(including you)will believe me very well,because my life story is far to me "incendiar spectacular"... I am sure i am same with a lot women here,and i am pretty sure i will have no problem being "believable"(hey,strange i just noticed thet word"believable" have inside the"LIE" word...lol!!) augusta
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
18 Apr 07
Thanks for sharing! You know, my life is far from normal, but I'm starting to meet more and more people here that I have things in common with. I think it's great! Oh, that my friend is a wonderful observation. There is indeed "lie" in that word! So clever of you to notice!
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@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
18 Apr 07
he he...i make a hobby to be smart!!lol(kidding) many hugs, augusta
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26 Jan 07
I suppose it depends on the people responding to the discussion. I have noticed that on most of the discussions I have been on the majority do tend to believe what the person is telling them and they usually give meaningful responses. Maybe I am gullable but I do tend to believe what people are telling me, so I hope they feel the same when I make a personal statement about my life. I am sure there are those who will make up stories to get alot of responses, but so far I have not come across any or have I? I have responded to one of your discussions and I believed what you had said and I have read discussions that familiar members have responded to that seem to keep in context of what they have said on previous discussions. I am not really bothered if people believe my stories or not. I am not on here for brownie points but to understand how other people think and what has influenced or challenged their life's. I do feel that by being paid on this site does attract some who are not here to enlighten their understanding of ourselves but I just ignore these and tend to respond to discussions that feel genuine and I hope those who respond to my discussions do the same.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
26 Jan 07
Thanks for the reply! It sounds like you have a pretty positive perspective about the whole situation. I try to do so as well. I tend to reply to discussions that interest me in ways that assume the person is sincere. I don't really lose anything by doing so. Personally, I don't think it would hurt me too much if a stranger replied to me with "I don't believe you" but I might be a little upset if someone I had talked to over a period of time did so. It's happened to me before, offline actually, and it rather hurt my feelings. Thanks again for sharing your point of view!
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I like this thread. I'm glad my bud jimbo dug it up. You and I have discussed this before, and if I posted my life story on Mylot, I know a number of people would think it untrue. But if they went back through my other posts, I'm sure they would see that I am consistant. But as I said to you before, truth shows through. A real person can be seen through the darkness of the internet. there are many on mylot that I doubt. You are one of the few that I don't. It just shows through. I would hope that people would see that with me as well.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
*nods* I remember us talking about this before. I could see how others would find your life unbelievable, just from what little of it I know. But like you said about me, I've never doubted you. You are consistant between posts, and you talk with the authority of someone who has "been there." I'm glad you liked my discussion topic! It's something I must say I think about often, because I have been accused on other forums of lying just because someone saw a bit of something here, and then another bit of something somewhere else, and was too dumb to fit them together properly. =p
• India
12 Apr 07
Well, there are really two sides of viewing your observations. One: If one posts everything about one's life, it may or may not be believed, as people are so used to hearing tall tales out here. Two: I myself might end up spinning tall tales to compete with the other tall tales that are doing the rounds, simply because the truth about my life may not seem interesting in comparison, or that I might be too squeamish to discuss the truth out here. Either way, one gets to see a lot of make believe stuff here and there is nothing really wrong with that. If a post, imaginary or real, generates healthy discussion and activity, it has served its purpose. What you do think?
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Apr 07
You know, that's a good point. Even a discussion that is not strictly true can be a good thing. If it generates healthy discussion, then it does have a purpose. Thanks for pointing out something I hadn't thought of before. Wonderful!
• Canada
6 Apr 07
Honestly I try to stick with general topics and if it is about something in my life then I make sure it's nothing major. I will never "spill my gutts" to strangers. Yes, I feel very fortunate and love the friends I have here in mylot but because I don't know you all personally I can't talk about personal things in my life. Unless like I said they are no big deal. I also always write the truth, I don't lie about anything because if I want someones opinion what would be the point of lying about it? That and I don't like liars so I wouldn't want to be something or have the qualities of someone I don't like.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
Hehe, we're opposites! I'm so much more comfortable talking about "major things" online than offline that I prefer to do so online, and I don't guess I really mind if it's in a public forum, as long as I'm not going into too much detail. I am likely to tell my specific online friends stories in a lot more detail in private, but there's not a lot I wouldn't talk about in at least a non-detailed way. "That and I don't like liars so I wouldn't want to be something or have the qualities of someone I don't like." Me too.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
14 Apr 07
I am not good at creating things, what I reply or the topics i started are all my experience, if I were asked to create something out of my own experience, it would take me one whole day to get some ideas, I better start to write something that I had experienced in it. I do not mind people making up something, in fact it is hard to tell, even you see something exagerating, it does not mean that it is untrue, as long as I can enjoy in an interesting discussion, I will reply to it, does not matter it is true or not.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Apr 07
It is harder to make things up than talk about what really happened to me for me too. =p You know, that's a really good point, that if it's an interesting discussion then it doesn't really so much matter. Thanks for the insight!
@seamonkey (1976)
• Ireland
9 Apr 07
Nobody would believe the whole thing and there would be huge sections that would fall under serioous doubt. I like to say I am like an orange. My life has many sections and they are all seperate and unique. I'm lucky to have really lived, so not everything falls into the category of the mundane and believable.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Apr 07
That's a pretty good analogy there, seamonkey. You have a good point about having really lived too. The more you've done, the less likely it all is to be believeable. Lovely response!
• India
6 Apr 07
well what i think is that i'll belive on that... b'coz u don't hv any reason of writing lie and i don't hv any reason of nt to believe you... as simple as this...
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Apr 07
You make a good point, it is very simple thing really!
• United States
15 Apr 07
There's a lot of it that I doubt anyone would believe. My mother fell ill when I was a small child and was sick for the following sixteen years. It was mostly a rollercoaster straight out of hell, fraught with so many horrible experiences. If I laid it all down, in one place, people would likely think I was making things up to get sympathy. Even when I tell certain people, face to face, I wonder if they don't think the same thing.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Apr 07
I'm so sorry you and your family had to go through such a hard time. I've had that same experience, with people thinking I made things up to get sympathy. I spent my entire young life being abused, and I sometimes didn't have a place to live because none of my family really wanted me. When I say things like that, people often think I just want attention, so it's hard sometimes to talk about it.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
12 Apr 07
If I posted my like story, I would think that nobody would publish it. It would be a pretty boreing read, thats for sure. But as far as being believable, I think there are parts that might be hard to swallow, but most of it would be pretty believable. Take care!
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