Is it better to admit a new relation ship with my partner?
January 25, 2007 9:26pm CST
One day I came home to notice my wife so silent, until such time that the silence was change to nagging then to quareling me and insisting that I have a new girl other than her. Would it be better to tell her the truth with my new relationship? What do you advice?
27 Jan 07
If you love your family, you better cut the new relationship down so that you never have to admit having one to your wife, unless there is a child involved. If so, whether you like it or not, your wife deserves to know...and be ready to face the consequences.
29 Jan 07
Most of the answers are very suggestive that I am doing something, actually everyone was wrong, my wife got jealous of a girl closeness to me but i have no intention but simply as friends, maybe some gossipper reach the ear of my wife , so there came the commotion.
26 Jan 07
You cannot blame your wife for being rude to you. You have to be aware that you caused her to be like that. I also couldnt blame you either if you have reasons why you did that to her. Both of you may be at fault for the downfall of your union but you can always try to work it out through a good talk or counselling. But if it really wont work now, at least be honest to her this time. If you no longer love your wife, tell her the truth. I know it hurts much but she has to accept it. we cant force the love of a person who doesnt want us anymore. Even if you'll force to be together for the sake of the kids or family reputation, you will still be living in misery all your life. As they say, the truth will set us free.
29 Jan 07
Thanks gen, you comment was good , actually, i sent that question though it happen along time ago, my wife and I are happily married, it happen one day that she got jealous, she trys to fight with me, but my consience is clear, I have no relationship with the girl, it so happen that a friend of her might have told her a gossip with no truth. I told her if she dont believe me, then we better end up our relationship rigth then, I said I am clean, but well you know before, no matter how I explain, she dont believe me, I gave her my final word, and our relationship went to normal.
• Cupertino, California
26 Jan 07
Well since she alwreayd thinks you are cheating on her, you may as well come clean. What you are doing is not fair to her or the other girl. You need to come clean with your wife so that she can get tested for STDs and whatnot and she can decide what is going ot happen to your relationship.
29 Jan 07
Ha Ha Ha Ha, you make me laugh, I have nothing to admit and I am clean, Its just a gossip that my wife recieved so there was the commotion started. but really, most of the answers are vindictive sometimes. Its natural reaction of people, thanks buddy.....