Love or Arranged Marriage: Which is better?

marriage - married couples
@shedii (1486)
India
January 25, 2007 11:24pm CST
For me, love marriage & arranged marriage doesn't have much difference. It totally depends on the couples, the marriage stands or falls. Whats your opinion on arranged & love marriages? Which is better? Why?
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@rajarani (106)
• India
26 Jan 07
I think love marriage is better in love marriage you chose you partner & while spending time with each other you know each other very well & if the marriage is not successful then you can't bleame your parents so you don't have any choice to blame any one if your relation ship is in trouble & in love marriage you both know each other very well so their proper understanding between both of them so it's helps when the problem is created but it's not necessary that love marriage is successful than arranged marriage it's totaly depends up on understanding between husband & wife which help to carry their relationship for long time
@shedii (1486)
• India
27 Jan 07
thanks for your response!
@xyzabc (87)
• India
26 Jan 07
I prefer love marriage.
@shedii (1486)
• India
27 Jan 07
thanks for your response!
@rsrait (567)
• India
26 Jan 07
I feel my friend arrange marriages are better because lots of pro and cons are frist seen and then only marriage is fixed,in love marriage the girl as nothing new to give her husband and since you have spend lots of time with him you fall apart quickly.
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@coolangel (109)
• India
26 Jan 07
Love marriage is better than arranged because we get to choose our partner ourselves & know him well before getting married.
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@shedii (1486)
• India
27 Jan 07
thats right...thanks for your response!