virginity

India
October 8, 2006 7:07am CST
should we have our virginity till marriage??
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13 responses
• United States
9 Oct 06
Say you save yourself till marriage....what guarantees do you have that your husband/wife will stay with you forever....yeah your married but he/she can always cheat or leave you! I think to a certain extent virginity is important...you have to lose it with the person you believe is the right person and also when you believe it's the right time... I couldn't wait till marriage....I don't think i'll ever get married...because i don't think marriage is for me...so their's no waiting on my behalf!
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• Canada
9 Oct 06
i fully agree silly
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@1346795 (805)
• Greece
9 Oct 06
I think that you dont have to keep your virginity till marriage. I dont think that this is normal. Of course all these depends on the country you living in, your religion and your personal ideas. I also think that Family has s great role in these things because she can create your character.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
9 Oct 06
exactly what you said lol. But i do think you should make sure that the person you do give it to is special to you and you to him.not some puppy dog crush sort of thing though make sure you do it with your heart full of love for whom you are to give your gift.
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@Karinne (1220)
• Australia
9 Oct 06
I don't think you have to and i don't think its a problem if your not. It would be nice to save yourself for that special someone when you marry him/her to say you were each other firsts, but the way things are now i think it's probably very rare to find.
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• United States
9 Oct 06
Yes, it makes your wedding night more special.
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@Betso221 (1699)
• India
9 Oct 06
If u go according 2 our old people sayin "U should have it cause it one of the most important thing that a women is gifted with",But in tis speedy world i dont thing anythin is important cause u have 2 chage vit de future.50/50.
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• Canada
9 Oct 06
hell no! what if your partner sucks? besides, what about those of us who have no need or desire to get married?
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@jask8er (509)
• India
12 Oct 06
Well i am still a virgin, but its not like i have fixed in my mind that i will be a virgin till my marage or something, the right time has just not come, and if it comes only after i am maried then yea i will be a virgin till i get maried,,,
@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
12 Oct 06
Ask yourself. Don't ask or make discussion about your's. Like so others....... To my calculations and thought "No one is Virgin". This 'No one reveal it' in open. Realise yourself.
• United States
9 Oct 06
I think so, I held out until I was 18. I think it makes a marriage more special when you know that both of you have only been with eachother.
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@gulshah (861)
• China
10 Oct 06
ya its better to be virgin till u marry as how ur hubby is gona to enjoy the fresh .........
• United States
9 Oct 06
it is important to keep fpr marriage it does make the marriage more special
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@britishyip (1609)
• India
9 Oct 06
its ur decision.. what we gonna do.. but personally i think every girl shd have if the guy is also a virgin.. what say?
• Nigeria
18 Oct 06
Definately virginity's still very important as you had already said you would not want to marry someone who's not a virgin.Though important i guess in our norms of today it is not absolutely necessary that you must marry a virgin tho if you do all well and good but if you dont no problems cause it really doesnt judge the moral or personality behaviour of the girl in question.I dont see anything wrong in been a virgin or not....