have you ever had a controlling boyfriend or girlfriend?????

United States
January 26, 2007 3:20pm CST
i really don't understand why people are like that... they want to controll the other partner most of the times... for example one time i had a boyfriend and he always wanted to know what i was doin n who i was with... we lasted for along time until one day i decided that all was just not for me so i told him it was over... have you ever had a situation like that????? i would love know more....
5 responses
UnAUnO
@UnAUnO (106)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Yes i have had a controlling boyfriend he is now in prison. I hope he never gets out..
Angelinka
@Angelinka (1410)
• Italy
26 Jan 07
of course iu did it..i can say it honestly..i was looking to his email,i was reading his telephone messages.But it was only in the beggining of our relationship..No i trust him and dont do stupid things anymore!:)
AmStaff
@AmStaff (142)
• Romania
26 Jan 07
I didn't had a controlling girlfriend... and don't wish to have one ... i think that those relationship will go bad. If your partner is controlling... that means only one thing... he/she is obsesed ... and that is far from love.
lifetalk
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
26 Jan 07
Hmm.. well. i'd say.. it's this tendency in some people.. or rather... the inconfidence and lack of trust on their spouses/bf/gf that makes them act this way.. although i've never faced such a situation, neither have i ever tried to control my gal.. cze i trust her .. i dont need to know where she goes.. what she does.. i just need to know that we both love each other.. that's all!
Soozzeekew
@Soozzeekew (41)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Many many years ago. He was always checking up on me. It turned out that he was the one that was cheating.