love marriage or arranged marriage .which would you prefer

India
October 8, 2006 9:31am CST
you have to express which would u prefer and why?
13 responses
• India
14 Oct 06
i like love marriage
• India
14 Oct 06
before discusing this subject i wish u a happy " ead and diwali "....
@diju03 (534)
14 Oct 06
i prefer an arranged love marriage
@varuntr (643)
• India
8 Oct 06
i prefer love marriage
• United States
8 Oct 06
I would definitely choose a love marriage over an arranged marriage because I would much rather spend my life with someone I love and I am happy with than to spend it in an arranged marriage that I was forced into.
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
8 Oct 06
it got to be love, why, u got to know each other and match intrests u dont want problems do u
• United States
8 Oct 06
I prefer love marriage. It my life and I have to deal with the person I marry so I will choose my partner. I will never let others decided who Im going to marry to. Im happy with my choice I made 4 years ago.
@LBS1178 (317)
• United States
8 Oct 06
I would never want an arranged marriage. How can you be with someone for the rest of your life when you are forced into it, and dont even know him. Lets face it, certain types of people dont get along, nevermind having to live together forever. I think its ubsurd and unfair to both parties involved . I would much rather be with someone I know I get along with, can have an amazing time with and someone I truly love.
• United States
8 Oct 06
I prefer love marriage. I would never want someone to arrange who im going to marry. I would rather find who I want to love!
@NykieJ (192)
• United States
8 Oct 06
Love marrage...I could never marry some one because I'm suposs to, I have to have feeling and a connection to them first. My beliefs probally stem from my upbringing in the United States.
@daphne009 (301)
• United States
8 Oct 06
Love marriage for sure. An arranged marriage would suck. If I had to do that he'd better at least have alot of money!!! lol
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
8 Oct 06
I would rather marry for love instead of being arranged to marry someone I don't know. I wanna know who I'm marring and that we're compatible and able to communicate and what not.
@selvamdp (372)
• India
8 Oct 06
love marriage.... you get to know each other before marriage...its best