I had wrote about this earlier but forgot to put which disorder...Do you know...

I have a friend. They have break up with his gf because of that. He is just a liar. But he is still kept on saying things which are not true but we can let them change because they have the responsibility of their selves.

This is the case with three friends of mine... actually two are no longer friends because of some of the lies they told. I had tried everything I could think of with all three of them to stop their behavior but nothing seemed to work. With the twins, I tried to change the subject as often as possible, although it always came back to them. I tried ignoring their behavior or just walk away from them. They never got verbally abusive with me until the end of our friendship. That's when I walked away for good. They have been trying to regain my friendship ever since, but I have told them that I can't be friends with them and be treated that way. They need help, and unless they are willing to get help, I won't put myself through myself through it anymore. It's a hard thing to do, but it needed to be done. The other friend gets ignored a lot. Everone knows that he lies, and even if he were telling the truth nobody would believe it. He made the mistake one night while sitting in the American Legion hall, of spouting off about how he was in the Green Beret. Knowing it wasn't true, he was called a liar by a great many people there. He started spouting off how it wasn't hurting anyone, and then went into another fake heart attack... like he has every week or so. Unfortunately, you can never be sure if he is faking or not so you have to call in an ambulance and make a big fuss over him. He still gets his way. Then when the ambulance arrives, he refuses to go with them saying that his wife will be mad if he goes with them because they won't take him to the hospital she wants him to go to. He still won't go back there, but it's probably best since I'm sure he made a lot of enemies that night. Everyone asks me how I can put up with him. All I can say is that I feel sorry for him. Nobody else seems to be able to stand him, and as patient as I am, even I have a hard time sometimes. At least I don't have to see him daily. If he is getting abusive, don't wait until it gets out of hand. I've also been in an abusive relationship. He started out very much like like you have described, then later on became more and more controlling. I walked out when he got physically abusive and nearly put me in the hospital. Good luck to you, and I wish you the best.