Can you improve the circumstances without improving yourself?
27 Jan 07
I strongly agreed with you.Failures was NOT end of the day and its not the up most important aspects in any given cases and the most important things was that what we have learn during the process as to make any necessary changes/improvements to make things success next time. Self improvements was the on going process as well as the only way in our life to achieved any success!
27 Jan 07
As we learn,we find that while everything may not be within our control we can do things to put the odds of everything going right onto our side.This comes from experience and knowledge which means self-improvement.If we stop seeking,we get lost.
• Saudi Arabia
17 May 07
hi it is too much hard work to improve the circumstance when you are not involving your self in that circumstance, but if you restrict your self in one place and you don't entrrupt any one and you would re-strict your self in one place then at some extant it would be possible to improve the circumstances. but the circumstances which you would ask is of about your surronding environment then it is quit necessary to handle it other wise you would be the loser of the life game. because you need to coupe with the situation and you need to manage the situation's over there.
15 May 07
that's right that we can not blame circumstances with out improving ourselves but some times it gives some internal satisfaction to blame over circumstances and we feel quite satisfied by thinking that.i know i should'nt but some time i also want to blame circumstances not me.
10 May 07
My Dear Friend the scenario you divulge is similar to a revision in the Rules of Laws. nor neither an act of changing image to your life. Nobody could accomplish the real score in life without transformation first any bad obstacle that might blogging your goal or vision I further affirm your beliefs.
6 May 07
I personally feel that the circumstances around a person are due to the actions he has taken in situations. Every situation in life presents two course of actions at least and whichever path you take is responsible for making your circumstances.So for the circumstances around you , you alone are responsible, so while changing yourself you can change your circumstances as well.
3 May 07
your circumstances are the consequences of the decisions you have made.Thus,you cannot improve your circumstances without improving yourself.Because you are the one who decide and not your circumstances are the one who decide.
24 Mar 07
Yes I tend to agree. I think the problem is that we fail to act. So I am in this situtation, I don't like it. Instead of focusing on how we feel about the situation we should perhaps focus on what we can do about it. Accept it?, Ignore it? or change it?. 3 basic choices, the problem is we forget to choose.
• United States
23 Mar 07
Official things, there can be failures due to circumstances beyond my control, but not in personal life. If i take a decision to do something, i will do it even if i break my neck. I dont accept failure before trying my very best and more. I think i once told you how i put my daughter to nursary. So in this case (just like in a lot of other cases as well) i agree with you. Good luck.
2 Feb 07
yes i too agree with u.we cannot do any thing r we cannot tell anyone .when we point out another person we should c that remaining 4 fingers r pointing towards us.so first we should b correct they everthing will go in correct way.