Need advice on what to say..

@atul_asv (520)
India
January 27, 2007 2:33am CST
Basically, this is my situation: I had been flirting with a girl in my class for 2 months. I'm very, very shy, so I was planning on waiting until the next to last day to get her screen name and number. Unfortunately, due to weather she wasn't there for the last two days of class. HOWEVER, she did at one point give her phone number out loud to someone else in class, but it was pretty obvious it was directed at me (probably out of fear that I might not work up the confidence to ask her). So, although I will never see her in school again, I do have her phone number. Now, my question is this. What exactly should I say when I call her? I know she's pretty much expecting it (or hoping for it), so she probably won't think it's creepy or anything. I just don't know what to say since I don't know her all that well yet, and I don't want to make a fool of myself (although she seems to be a very understanding kind of person anyway). Also, do you think she will be disappointed if I just ask for her screen name (instead of going ahead and asking her out)?
3 responses
@vertex (803)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
You must be brave enough to know here if you really like her.
@atul_asv (520)
• India
27 Jan 07
yes, i'm trying to be brave enough but where can i start? how can i start to about it? i'm afraid that something will go wrong.
• India
27 Jan 07
yeh thats true. should call her and tell the truth. i think this is the right choice for you.
@bison007 (254)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 07
If I were you, I will call her and tell her that I found her number from someone else, be honest sometimes could be a good start. Even you can't ask her out on your first call, I think you could just introduce yourself or just ask her light information. Be honest and be brave bro, sometimes girls like it, and I'm sure she will. You won't regret it if you give a try.
@atul_asv (520)
• India
27 Jan 07
yeh, try is important but it should be in the right way. Am i correct? i dont want to take a chance.
• India
27 Jan 07
Call her up IMMEDIATELY, you fool! I cannot tell you how many times I've been in this situation- I know damn well someone liked me, I did most of the freaking work, all he had to do was CALL, but no, in the end.... no cojones. Such a disappointment. Call her. Now.