IF A TEEN AGE SON GET ATTRACTED TO HIS MOTHER WHAT SHOPULD HE DO?

India
October 8, 2006 2:32pm CST
what COULD HIS MIND REACT HOW WOULD U GUYS ADVICE HIM
16 responses
@LBS1178 (317)
• United States
8 Oct 06
get a psyciatric evaluation and some serious counseling
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• India
8 Oct 06
GREAT ,BUT WOULD HE DARE TO TELL HIS PARENTS IF THE PARENTS DO THAT WOULDNT THE KID GET MENTALLY UPSET
• India
8 Oct 06
teen age is a vulnerable time for humanbeing and if u say that a boy get attracted to his mom, then it is a lesser gult of that boy than his family and society-culture.i will make the society the real culprit here, becoz if it is not his role to imbibe these basic fundamentals of life then who's responsibility is this?god or animals whome u prefer? so if so happens to any boy then i would recommend to go to any art of living society or any such kind of yog sadhanaa sibir of authentic gurus in india for the change.
• India
10 Oct 06
thanks good answer.
@ysalwal (210)
• India
11 Oct 06
well said harichandan- good answer
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
8 Oct 06
o come on give me a break, this kind of questions will certainly do that, i mean its just sick
• United States
8 Oct 06
Well,You are right,it is rather gross...I have to agree with you on that one.
• United States
20 Oct 06
seek help.
@calvin222 (1606)
• India
30 Nov 06
oedipus - oedipus
its no big deal. as per the psychologists it happens to more people than are ever likely to confess. it is probably just a phase which will pass away. you have historical examples of the elektra and the oedipus complex. so its nothing new either. its just that the teenage son shouldnt get carried away and do something stupid.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
30 Nov 06
is he attacted to her physically, or her characteristics. i know for females, whne we date or get married we tend to find someone who reminds us of our fathers, same goes for guys. i agree it might be something he'll just grow out of, but he shouldn't take any action upon it at all of course. he could find someone who reminds him of his mother, he may just be figureing out what 'type' of woman he would like in the future.
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
11 Oct 06
He needs to Figure out why he's attracted to his mother? What he's actually attracted to? Being a teenager, he could definitely be misunderstanding his real emotions. It's not normal to be attracted to your mother. Recognizing your mother is beautiful is different. He's maturing into manhood, but needs to be guided properly. I'd wonder about the mother too. Is she prancing around in skimpy clothing or something....revealing her womanly assets. Not good.....I'd recommend counseling with the son and mother.
@shi_2000_21 (2680)
• India
11 Oct 06
He should consult a doctor urgently. that't the way.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
11 Oct 06
Maybe he just admires his mom and is mistaking it for attraction. He should be looking for a girl who has the QUALITIES of his mom....like kindness, helpful, etc. Just like they say, a girl often marries a man who acts a lot like her dad.
• United States
8 Oct 06
thats grosss
• India
11 Oct 06
come onman,,,stop blaming anyone or being moralistic.....the reason i am saying ths is cause,i hv seen many many people getting attracted to thiermom/dad in a wrong way....cant be helped much....they just outgrow it damn soon....teen years r offcourse confusing....nothing serious
• United States
9 Oct 06
hahah ewww
@hikalyan (269)
• India
20 Oct 06
better way to make him concentrate on something he likes or to divert his attention
• Philippines
20 Oct 06
it's probably a case of oedipal complex that spilled over into adolescence. look up sigmund freud and you'll understand what i mean. according to freud, it's pretty normal. but it's no longer normal if the person acts upon it.
• Zambia
8 Oct 06
this is great its all the same //// just have and forget.. what if fathers go for daughters. i feel this fifty -- fifty
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
8 Oct 06
This would be bad, he should never look at his mom in that way, maybe he needs to have other activities in his life to distract him.