friends are best enemies not bestfriends?how true is it?

Philippines
January 27, 2007 6:37am CST
hello people of mylot!!do u have a bestfriend or just a close friend of yours?do u think that they are true enough to give all your trust on them? advices pls.....
6 responses
• India
4 Feb 07
friendship is life for me
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• India
4 Feb 07
i just have friend no degree of closeness exist
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Maybe I don't give my 100% trust to my friends... since I have experienced being betrayed by friends... such as backbiting... In a relationship I don't give all I always have a part for me.... because if I would not do it maybe i would only suffer.... So you alwayz be careful....
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@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
As of the recent situation of our society now, i could merely say that it is really true that your bestfriend would possibly be your best enemy in the future...Wanna know why? Just try to see the reality that by the time you were then best of friends with that particular person, then you tell her/him almost all of your secrets and then afterwhich time will come that you'll get some misunderstanding with that person. Yet because of the things she/he knows about you, there will be then a great possibility that he/she will reveal it to any other people that she might meet along her way wherein that very secret of yours can now be spread to others. And basically being a bestfriend, she/he somehow already knows your weakness that she/he may possibly use just to put you down. That's why i myself never ever consider any of my friends as bestfriend... Sorry to say but its hard to find trust to any person you've just once touched...After all of the experiences i have in this life...I now know that the most hurtful betrayal we can have is a betrayal from a bestfriend whom we once consider as the best of all the best...For me, Lord God alone is the only everlasting bestfriend i have...Hope you to get the point...
@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
before you give your secret to your friends...be sure you know her/his attitude before you divulge all your secrets to him/her...
@vdhill (65)
• United States
7 Feb 07
My closest friend was my worst enemy. I learned from that and keep friends at a proper distance now.