Is it possible to have a relationship without trust?

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Philippines
January 27, 2007 10:54pm CST
My girl and I have been together on and off for three years. We're very much in love, but due to past indiscretions, we've both lost trust in the other. Is there anyway to make it work?
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@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
I think you can still make it wotk. But to do that you have to regain her trust and she has to do the same. Any relationship wouldn't be harmoniuos without trust. So if you love her, win her trust back.
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• Philippines
28 Jan 07
thanks for the comment :) i really appricated it :)
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@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
You're welcome dear.
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• United States
28 Jan 07
Absolutly not, trust is the building block of a relationship. Without it, you're relationship might seem in love, but without the trust, I can only think you two will eventually crumble, unless you find that trust. Talk to her, be there for her, earn her trust back, it's the only way to keep your relationship stable and have it continue.
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• Philippines
28 Jan 07
thanks :)
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
28 Jan 07
You have to learn how to trust each other again because with out trust it would be a rocky realtionship. It is hard to build it up again but if you really love each other you can make it work just prove it to each other and never let what you did in the pass happen again. Good Luck!!
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• Philippines
28 Jan 07
thank you.. for the suggestion. =)
@FreddyLim (161)
• Singapore
28 Jan 07
A relationship without trust is never gonna work,unless of course both of you are just purely having fun and enjoy each other company. To make this relationship work again, you will have to earn that trust back again... It could simple range from remembering what you say to her or her to you... there are many many ways to earn her trust and it defer from individual to individual...
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• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
I dont think that without trust a relation ship could go any further! Trust is the basic requirement!
• India
28 Jan 07
Well without trust it is impossibel to maintain the relationship. I will suggest both go together and talk each solve the problem or take some good friend who will help you both.
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• United States
30 Jan 07
Well I think that when you are going on and off then you aren't ment to be. If you want to be with that person then you would never leave them in the forst place.
• Poland
30 Jan 07
I think you need to talk about it in a heart to heart manner. Nothing can be solve in a good conversation. For sure you can rekindle lost trust. Maybe there are just few misunderstandings along thew way. Keep it working dude!
@w32worm (287)
• India
30 Jan 07
yes u need to trust each other alot in relationships. so please make her confortable n make her happy. i know sometimes things might go wrong. but we are human. "To err is a human" but u both can be happy by keeping each othere happy. u need to trust each other. dun allow ego to come b/w both of u. Be Happy.Good day!
• India
30 Jan 07
weelll... hey there.... i truly feel teh only way u could make any relationship work is to spek to each other openly... anything in ur mind that is disturbing.... any thought which makes u feel a little uncomfortable .. about ur partner.. open up... talk it out. thst teh only way u can know ur partner inside out n the best way to hav a healthy relationship... i advice u two take a nice day off... n talk out all the past problems n reason it out... so if there wer any mis understandings n stuff... erase it from both ur minds... n in the end.. let each other know how much u guys love each other n how much u wanna be together .. n if it ways more than teh problems between u guys.... the day was worth it :)