I keep on criticizing my brother. What should i Do?

so, it is you who has an eye on big brother? yah, that's a common problem with big brothers.. i know that cause i have one too.. and smoking is one of the things i hate about him.. what you lack is a brother-to-brother bonding.. ahah, and shall i say, we have the same problem.. but when brothers open up there sides and thoughts, they tend to understand each other, and a special closeness will develop.. tell you more soon.. i am still working on that process^^

Right now I would love to just kick my older brothers butt. He is an idiot and needs something to make him see that he is not the only one in this world. So I may not be the best one to give advice. :) All I can say is that you need to bite your tongue and before you blurt something hurtful out you should think why you are going to say what you are going to say. Even though I would love to kick my brothers butt I don't say things to him because he is an adult and can live the way he wants. When he is around me I usually just leave and go elsewhere so that I don't say things I will reqret.

Patience! -learn to develop that attitude..especially to your older brother. Even if he is very irritating, patience might help you. Next thing to do,is to hang and go out with him. Play basketball, PC games or anything both of you will enjoy. As brothers, you should have a time for each other. In that way, you can talk many things together. You can open and share the things you dislike about him, in that way, he can also change his attitude.;-)