Do distances matter in LOVE???

January 27, 2007 11:47pm CST
am in love with a guy who is too far away from me. from the day we departed we have started fighting over petty issues but i love him vey much n i know he too... what u guys think that these fights r due to increased distances btw us???? do distances really matter in love???????
7 responses
@victorwzj (539)
28 Jan 07
Distance relationship almost never work. In some rare cases it does work but it usually fail. It is not that I want to crush your hope but it is the fact. There three basic option when dealing with long distant relationship. first choice is the couple can choose to remain faithful to each other and this option is required tremendous of trust, honestly , loyalty and hard work of keeping in touch. second option is try dating other and see what happen. if after dating other people the couple still love each other then this might actually strengthen the relationship. the third option were just give up and start dating other right away. this is a bad option but sadly is the most common option . if you think that your undying love can surpass the small obstacle (long distant relationship) then you must discuss this with your boy friend. Both of you must remain faithful , agree to be loyal to each other and let the fate take care the rest. in many cases , one of the partner may feel lonely and start looking at the "market" to see what the "market" has to offer. women will probably hold back and saving her self for the guy . This would be the plan but it doesn't alway be the case ... alot can happen if the couple in long distance relationship. The guy probably will fool around and feel guilty for it later, then again this were greatly depending on the faithfulness and loyalty of the guy . if you think that both of you are faithful enough then it is a good idea to give it a try. If not better end the relationship and not wasting both of your time.
@ayushi (224)
• India
11 Feb 07
yes of course they it can be positively also an negatively also.. it can increase the heights of your love..mmake you realize its importnce or it can also diminish your love because of communication gap.. it depends on the people involved
@wrdsofwisdm (1070)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Unfortunately, distance puts a big strain on a relatonship. If you can see eachother at least once a month, it helps. But after a few years it gets to be really tough unless one of you plans to move to the other's residence. I was in a four year relationship that was only three states away. We were engaged the end of our third year. It didn't work out because he said in the beginning he woud move but then pressured me to move instead. I'm not saying it's impossible. I'm just saying it's very, very difficult.
• Indonesia
28 Jan 07
Nah, I don't think so. I think when you fight with someone (not the serious ones) it can make you nearer with him. And I think distance is not really matter in love, because I'm in a long distance relationship now, and I've been through it for nearly 5 years now. If you have love then distance is not a problem.
• India
28 Jan 07
Ya in some cases,,but not really...this is a matter of trust n mutual understanding solely... u have to keep faith on ur partner n let things go as they r gng...its just the binding of hearts,,u know...n dnt fight over petty things,,mind the feelings of ur partner,,,,okkkkkkkk
@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
It really depends. Some people survive long distance relationships (LDRs) while some just fail miserably. You just have to trust your partner more, which I should add is hard when you barely see each other. It is always better to have someone at arms reach than being miles away.
@heeeena (39)
• India
28 Jan 07
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO distances dont matter in love....My love is also too far away 4m me,,But i do love him wid all my heart....It may b possible that fights inc. wid distance but that is also a sign of love... Wid distances only physical seperation increase not the seperation of hearts...... so distances really dont matter in love...Keep loving ur partner n njoy a lovin life,,,,