Friendship
By marypraxy
@marypraxy (29)
India
13 responses
@srinathakarapu (3093)
• India
9 Oct 06
we dont call it as friendship coz they share a lot more in the marriage relation ship than jst being a best friend..
@marypraxy (29)
• India
13 Oct 06
Isn't marriage an adjustment....we support each other and there is lot more but friendship...?It is too sweet to last in marriage!
@srinathakarapu (3093)
• India
13 Oct 06
ya..but its more than jst friendship pal..
we dont share each and everythings with friends which we share with our love...so frienship and love are two different things....
maybe u can see like this
before marriage u share everything with friends but after marriage u dont share each and everything coz love is a personal matter in which u dont involve friends...
after marriage i share everything with love and only somethings with ur friends i mean to say tat after marriage ur friendship with others had boundries and with love has no boundries..tats why we call it has more than friendship...
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
13 Oct 06
Actually, husbands and wives have to be best of friends. If any one of them chooses an outsider as a best friend, they will have problems at home. A Best friend is some one you can trust completely, share all your inner feelings, discuss all your problems. So a couple should just have to be best of friends with each other.
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@marypraxy (29)
• India
13 Oct 06
I can have a best friend who is a female and works with me....my work related issues I share with her...for this part she is my best friend....my family issues my hubby can help..
well I don't share all my passions with same person.,my college friend shares my fears and apprehensions.....
@megean2k4 (401)
• United States
9 Oct 06
My husband is my best friend. But he's so much more than that too.
@megean2k4 (401)
• United States
13 Oct 06
My husband does. If we can generalize and say men don't have the patience to listen in this jet age. Then can't we say the same about women? They're just as busy as men.
@marypraxy (29)
• India
13 Oct 06
Good!Husband and wives are a relationship that is beyond friendship.....Yes husbands are certainly dependable ...but do they have the patient to listen to you in this jet age?
@marypraxy (29)
• India
3 Nov 06
Husbands are a totally different package...yes you can always talk to them about everything...but how do you meet their demand...?
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
9 Oct 06
They are best friends for ever provided they have perfect understanding, mutual trust and understanding, respect for each other and feeling for each other. Such people can be found in plenty in India.
@marypraxy (29)
• India
13 Oct 06
Anywhere....This is a tall task ...we respect do not mean we are friends....lifelong committment yes ...very common!
@marypraxy (29)
• India
3 Nov 06
Yes, I agree we come to depend a lot on our husbands....but to remain truly friends we need to have some space between us!
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I don't think they always are. I do believe in order for the marriage to be successful that they need to be the best of friends, however.
@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
13 Oct 06
No, not a myth. My husband is my best friend, I can talk to him about almost anything and everything. He is a constant in my life that I can count on, and he has a strong shoulder to cry on. I say that is definently a best friend.
@Rajeshs (125)
• India
13 Oct 06
may be..its like taking a lottery.if anybody finds his/her best friend in their partner,its a blessing.
@steffylikewoah (1762)
• United States
3 Nov 06
My husband is my bestfriend and was even before we got married. As said before, he's also much more than that too. I think it's good actually. As both of us change through the years we'll be changing together, instead of apart like so many other couples do nowadays.
