I want some advice on Parentings ...Because i wanna be a mother one day!!!!
January 28, 2007 6:30pm CST
Well ill tell you my story ....Im 15 and i want to have about 20 kids one day lol in my religion i can get married young so my mom says i should start now if i wanna have that many kids i love kids ever since i was lil i always loved kids i always wanted to hold sombody's baby i always babysat for people because it was fun so i wanna know how did everybody raise up their child Any Advice????
29 Jan 07
I dont know how mature you are as a 15 year old, but having a baby is a lot of responsibility, and having 20 is just a scary thought! lol. You really would miss out on a lot of things if you start having babies so young! think of all the other things in your life you would like to do. could you do them with a baby ? i found i sometimes have troubles managing and i'm 26 and only have one, and a stepson. It is really hard work. it is well worth it. but make sure that you are really ready to settle down and not wanting to hang out with friends, go to the movies, really do anything you enjoy doing now. cause you wont have time to do them after you have a baby.
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30 Jan 07
And also yes 20 kids is alot we already takled about this lol but what i see people dont relize is that you cant have 3 kids in one year lol unless you have like twins or tripplets so stop thinking that she wants to have 20 kids while she's 15 she dosent! lol this is through out her life time!!! so all you calm down and stop startin stuff being discouraging,(20 more muslim kids would be a blessing and a beautiful thing to brong into this world) n e way with time comes patience and with patience comes success!!! take kayya bear!!
29 Jan 07
I think it is important to think 'what can I offer my kids?' You are giving life to a person, not collecting teddy bears! You need to grow up yourself before tring to bring others up. Educate your self, have fun, travel, get financially stable, not to mention a loving guy to be father! then you will be set for having kids. until then get a cat.