Scratching

Well-I'm glad to know it's not abnormal-and lol I'm spoiling my man. Shoot-I'm going to start asking him to clean and rub my feet. That's the only thing I like. I'm not used to asking for personal things. He likes back scratches and massages so he gives me them once in awhile. But, I never ask. But it does feel good-just not my cup of tea-or should I say my fried chicken. Lol.

I am not big on masages either, he does other things for me that I like.

That's good. It's nice to know there's a few guys out there that still consider treating a girl to few a nice gestures. Most men think they can get away with a few bucks here and there, and then let the woman do everything else. It's okay if he's the sole provider, and literally is the security of the family...so he shouldn't have to stress about everything else...but it get ridicilious(sp) if you work the same hours and he expects you to do everything. But if he's like making the majority of the money and paying the bills then I could understand him demanding more from the wife...but he should do outside work. What do you think?? Anyone else in this discussion? lol

I don't know what to think of men, I think if they could they'd find out how much they can get away with about having everything they want. I personally think that's why men cheat...to see how long they can have best of 2 worlds before the women knows she's being slighted.