arrnangemarraige or love marraige

India
January 29, 2007 2:06am CST
hey people what do u beleive in arrange marraige or love maraige ..can u trust ur gf n make her life long partner after a long headache or will u prefer.arrange marraige n start a new life avoiding mistakes u did in past
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4 responses
• India
19 Aug 07
only arrange marriage.. dont believe in it..cos u cant believe any gal.. they are dangerous
• Canada
29 Jan 07
Love marriage always sounds better to me, an arranged marriage just seems to scary to get into... the idea of someone else choosing your life partner is an even scarier thought. Suppose they choose the wrong one for you, then what? I'd rather live with the idea that I am worthy enough of making my own decisions. This method makes you a more mature, responsible adult and others see it to be true. An arranged marriage can leave you with a long headaches for the rest of your life, I personally wouldn't want that in my head! That's what life's all about... having choices! Letting someone choose for you says, you're incapable of doing anything for yourself! I don't mean to offend anyone with my response to this discussion,.... just being a mature, responsible, adult who has given an honest response... which of course makes me an adult whom has chosen to respond to this discussion
@aksagi (413)
• India
29 Jan 07
Well understanding,care,love,trust n all good words to be here.....
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
i prefer the love marriage because it will be more difficult to adjust in an arranged marriage. you'll spend the rest of your life to someone you dont know that much and would complicate everything. while in love marriage, you made your own choice and a partner that you think would give happiness to you and will love you for whoever you are.