Is it neccesary to be honest with your partner? please help me on this!!!!

special - is it necessary..
@archiee (322)
India
January 29, 2007 2:55am CST
is it necessary to be honest with your husband or your partner about your previous relations? its not hard in real to make him understand that it was not purposely. and you hate it yourself for what you have done. help me on my question as to what can i say to hm in order to make him trust me... please its serious
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9 responses
• United States
1 Feb 07
i know honesty is key in a relationship but when it comes to past relationships he's not going to be completely honest with you about them because he doesnt want to hurt you or make you jealous so i dont see why he should know every detail of them. this isn't a big deal and since you lied about something so minor that was in the past then i see no relevance. he shouldn't care what you did in the past.
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@archiee (322)
• India
1 Feb 07
i go with you and even, liked your response
@samson1967 (7417)
• India
29 Jan 07
Every human will have the feeling some where inthe corner of the heart that whether their respective life partner is honest. When we disclose the previous relations, it makes both hearts light and the love multiplies. Un disclosure will lead to guilty conciousness. It will break the relations also once the partner come to know about the previous relations through others.
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@archiee (322)
• India
29 Jan 07
i agree with you. so should i be dihonest to him? but one can't stay without being guilty to it
@lilaclady (28227)
• Australia
29 Jan 07
I think honesty is one of the most important things within a marriage, you are a team and it takes teamwork for it to be successful....
@aksagi (413)
• India
29 Jan 07
Sure u should be honest..... its better to tell before some other person make his merry before its too late for u.
@archiee (322)
• India
29 Jan 07
i agree.. but i am in dark side as to how can i say that my partner is also true to me? me must be having some relations behind me. and not telling me. but when i'll tell him he will be hiding his matter from me and proove me wrong there what should i do?
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@jayalaksmi (1041)
• India
1 Feb 07
You should be honest. Because if you are on the truth side then you can face any difficult situation with ease. And there's a saying The Best Way To Win an argument is to start by being in the right.
• India
1 Feb 07
if ur honest to ur self and the people around u..take it down u will never b in trouble in ur life
• India
1 Feb 07
if ur honest to ur self and the people around u..take it down u will never b in trouble in ur life
@bobilongo (264)
• Austria
30 Jan 07
If you are not honest where do you think the ralationship is taking you to,relationship is base on trust and in a situation where there is no trust that is the end of it. so if you are not honest to your partner then forget it
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
past relationship should be accepted by your partner wether its good or bad. if you have this dark secrets better tell your husband before bad things will happen.. i have known somebody who gets pregnant with another man (not his BF) his BF is working abroad. now she force her bf to schedule their wedding as early as possible because if not she will marry another. because her bf loves her he now then fly back to our plce just to schedule the wedding. and then fly back abroad.. after 6 months the girl gave birth.. the guys family decided to incubate the child because it is premature.. to their surprise the doctor told them that the child is not premature. they told the girls hubby for the situation.. without any questions ask the guy filed for an annulment of their marriage.. and they now live in separate ways..