Is it neccesary to be honest with your partner? please help me on this!!!!
January 29, 2007 2:55am CST
is it necessary to be honest with your husband or your partner about your previous relations? its not hard in real to make him understand that it was not purposely. and you hate it yourself for what you have done. help me on my question as to what can i say to hm in order to make him trust me... please its serious
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1 Feb 07
i know honesty is key in a relationship but when it comes to past relationships he's not going to be completely honest with you about them because he doesnt want to hurt you or make you jealous so i dont see why he should know every detail of them. this isn't a big deal and since you lied about something so minor that was in the past then i see no relevance. he shouldn't care what you did in the past.
29 Jan 07
Every human will have the feeling some where inthe corner of the heart that whether their respective life partner is honest. When we disclose the previous relations, it makes both hearts light and the love multiplies. Un disclosure will lead to guilty conciousness. It will break the relations also once the partner come to know about the previous relations through others.
29 Jan 07
i agree.. but i am in dark side as to how can i say that my partner is also true to me? me must be having some relations behind me. and not telling me. but when i'll tell him he will be hiding his matter from me and proove me wrong there what should i do?
29 Jan 07
past relationship should be accepted by your partner wether its good or bad. if you have this dark secrets better tell your husband before bad things will happen.. i have known somebody who gets pregnant with another man (not his BF) his BF is working abroad. now she force her bf to schedule their wedding as early as possible because if not she will marry another. because her bf loves her he now then fly back to our plce just to schedule the wedding. and then fly back abroad.. after 6 months the girl gave birth.. the guys family decided to incubate the child because it is premature.. to their surprise the doctor told them that the child is not premature. they told the girls hubby for the situation.. without any questions ask the guy filed for an annulment of their marriage.. and they now live in separate ways..