Words for our ex's...

Philippines
January 29, 2007 6:52am CST
If you had the chance to talk to your ex bf/gf..what would be the words that you will tell him/her? I'll start it.. After all the pain you have given me in our 2yr relationship,I realized that it was that experience that made me stronger and made me realize that life is short to waste on people like you..(bitter i know)LOL..
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@MySpot (2602)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Kiss - glittery hot-pink lips.
If it was a bad relationship~ I wouldn't give them the satisfaction. I'd stroll on by as if I never knew them! Letting them wonder, regret, or worry! ((and of course, knowing that I was the one that got away)) : ) If it was a good relationship~ I'd say or maybe wave "Hello" and then keep walking because I'm perfectly happy with my hubby and none of my ex's could ever compare! Honestly, I don't dwell on my past relationships, good or bad. Why should I exhaust my energy or emotion for something or someone that means nothing compared to the marriage/friendship that I have now; )
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
good for you..mine was a bad break up that really affected me and my family..thanks for responding to my discussions.
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@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
As for me.. "Have your work already learned to love you like I did?" Ahaha ang drama. LOL.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
hahah so she preferred to choose career over her love for you..
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• United States
30 Jan 07
I'm married now to a wonderful man and still bump into my ex everyonce in awhile. Were friends now and it wasn't a bad break up, we both just grew up. So if I ever wanted to say anything I would say thank you. Thank you for being you. Thank you for helping me grow, and thank you for showing me love. We went through alot when we were together. But as they say some people are in your life for a reason some for a season and some for a lifetime. We were together for a reason, we both had things we needed to learn from each other. We had our problems but i'll always remember him for helping me find my way to my wonderful husband.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
wow..good to hear u have a family of your own and still are friends with the ex..people do come in our lives for reasons we know or might not know at present
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• United States
30 Jan 07
We both grew he has his own family now also. I learned alot from him.
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@babyjane (1395)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
if i have a few words to my ex-bf... "thanks for all the times you've wasted but behind all i cherish it. But thank you for all coz i am more happily now than being with you. :)"
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
true happiness sometimes happen when we know the art of letting go of someone who doesnt know how to cherish ones love.thanks for posting.
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@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
30 Jan 07
as for ex boyfriends dont have any got a boyfriend now and love him to pieces. but as for ex- husband my words are not very nice to write on MyLot Im sure you all can guess a few of the words.I have had 2 bad marriages one of 12yrs and one of 10yrs.my BF now he has showed me that there are still a few gentelmen left in this world. heck he even opens doors for me and has for 3 years.
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
wow two husbands?and it resulted in divorce?arrghh,thats why i dont want to marry anyone.here in the philippines we dont have divorce so if i do marry someone and we decide to end things,it wouldnt be easy for both of us..
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@Imhappy (68)
• India
30 Jan 07
I'd like to tell my ex that all the time you have lied to me.. i know it all but only you had to have the courage to speak the truth.. whatever it is.. and hiding it from me did not do anything good to me.. anyways I'm happy with my present love life and would want you to have a happy life ahead..
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
good for you..i couldnt imagine myself knowing my loved one is cheating on me and still i kept quiet and never opened up about it..When i find out that my ex was cheating on me i confronted him and what do i expect?he denied it.he always denies everything so i just got tired of confronting him.
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@threena (132)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
My ex cheated on me when we where together. He married one of them. So if I see him, I don't need to tell him..."IN YOUR FACE!" I married a handsome and wonderful man, and I manage to look great even after 3 kids. While his sl*t turned into a blimp after 3 kids. "Doncha wish your girlfriend was hot like me" love that song. Revenge is sweet!LOL
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
bwahaha..yup sis revenge is sweet.Until now my ex who fooled around keeps on making missed calls and last time he sms me to ask me out.and I just said sorry i cant.after sending that reply..i felt so happy.finally i had the guts to finally tell him im not seeing him anymore.LOL.. We always have the last laugh dont we?heheh..
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• United States
30 Jan 07
alright u asked for it..... I would tell him thank you for cheatin on me with your cousin for it has make me relize life it too short for me to dwindle on the good times we had as well as the bad. For his mistake I have the best man a woman could ask for and a son that im so thankful I didnt have with him
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
nice one.LOL...and imagine cheating with a cousine..how stupid.
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• India
29 Jan 07
I will tell her that you have tought me both love and as well as hate..
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
yes indeed..loving someone and then hating them after they have hurt us..but the time will come that we will learn to forgive even if we dont forget.
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@suyen15 (31)
• United States
29 Jan 07
if i ever bump into my ex of six years... i'd say... thank you! thank you for finally doing something that broke my helmet! ;) really. i am in a much better place now and with someone i am absolutely enamored with, i can't ask for more. :)
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
yup thats a nice one..so u also know abt the helmet thing huh?heheh..good that you have finally found someone who would really appreciate you..
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I just want her to know there's no regret of anything from our past relationship. I tried to get mad at her but I can't so I just cherish those moments we had. Wishing her to be happy and successful in her decision. If I could only maker her mine again that would be better but then I know It will never happen. So I just keep the memory and die with it.
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
wow,thats good..a guy who isnt bitter.and also who wishes his ex to have a good life after.good for u.
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@aksagi (413)
• India
29 Jan 07
yeah one chance can be given but it depends upon the earlier mistakes grave nature.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
for me it would be, as we passed in the night i learned much from you and benefitted from our time together. But, as is the way of nature, seasons change and so did we. I will always thank you for your teaching, i hope we are both better people for our time together. As we move forward apart we must build on our common experience, i wish you well, blessed be
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@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
That seems to be, but very good too!;) I do have to an ex that left me and ignored the things that I want to say to her, so I'll just have to say here since you want it to know. But be cautious, some words maybe hard for others to handle.. Why'd you left me, left me on the time that I needed you most? You've hurt me and caused me a lot of pain, I almost ruined my life just to give you the love, the caring and understanding. But why did you left me, left me on the time where I was already down and out? But instead of helping me, you simply left me and almost drag me out of sanity. A time where I need you beside, to care and comfort me. I guess it just shows the real you, a user and an opportunist that only wants to suck of all the things that I had.. =(
@Lydia1901 (16353)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Wow, you had thought this over, didn't ya?!! I would say to one of my exes, thank you so much for breaking my heart because that only made me stronger and I have found someone who would apprechiate my love for him.