Should i confess crush on my girlfriend's best friend

India
January 29, 2007 9:48am CST
I dearly love my girlfriend but recently i have felt attracted to her friend whom i meet regurly meet with her. I know this is a harmless little crush but should i talk about it to my girlfriend or let sleeping dogs lie???????
7 responses
@lols189 (4797)
29 Jan 07
i think personally u shud just keep quiet bout it coz if u confess then ur girlfriend might leave u an her friend might not be interested in u an then u mind end up lonely
• India
29 Jan 07
thanks. do you think if i have a crush on her, maybe i should talk to the girl cconcerned and not my girlfriend or both are out of question
@rajcools (18)
• India
29 Mar 07
now since when have u found for yourself a girlfriend...... I dont think there is any.And now u r saying that u have crush on your girlfriend's best friend.............hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well first of all you r dreaming and secondly be bold enough and tell your girlfriend and i swear to u she will slap u like helllllllllllllllllllllllllll..............
@oiixdaii (1059)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
I suggest you keep quiet because it would be very troublesome if your girlfriend finds out that you have a crush on her best friend. You might not see your girlfriends best friend forever. I also think that she might get insecure or jealous and it may lead to a fight.
@swesun08 (32)
• India
5 Mar 07
ya u must confess that. she is ur girl friend and will understand u. n one more thing the love relation ship is on trust. as long as u both trust each other u can hav crush on number of girls and she will still believe u n u should also understand her when she says that she had a crush on ur friend. ok
• India
9 Feb 07
just start by praising abt ur g/f's frnd in front of ur g/f see her mood and reactions ...if she get angry then let the sleeping dogs lie....if take it easy then....just tell her bt make sure u'll not betray her coz of her frnd.
@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Don't do it. It will ruin your relationship as well as your girlfriend's relationship with her friend.I'm speaking from experience. Believe me, I know.
@Lushous (60)
29 Jan 07
Here's the scenario, if you tell your girlfriend about the crush, she'd either stop trusting every word that comes out of your mouth or initiate break up proceedings(she'll be telling herself, whats stopping you from having a crush with all her friends when you guys are married or something). Your 2nd scenario is for you to tell her friend about the crush, this is dodgy because the friend might not feel the same way about you and report you to your girlfriend(lights out for you mate). Then again, she could be habouring the same feelings. If this blossoms, it'll mean your girlfriend will break up with you and turn enemies with her friend. In the long run, if your crush fizzles out, you'll have lost your girlfriend and her friend, where does that leave you then? My advice, stifle your crush with her friend and concentrate on developing the loving relationship you have with your girlfriend. They say what goes around comes around, dont go messing up a perfectly good relationship because of a crush mate! Cheerio.