:(:::::: I just found out that my grandma wants to abort me before..
@danielcatastrophy22 (775)
Philippines
January 29, 2007 10:38am CST
should i hate my grandmother for knowing this?i just found out to my dad that my grandmother wants my mom to abort me before..huhu.. i feel real sad when i hear this to my dad, coz my grandma dont want my dad for my mom -even now,.i ask my mom about it and she just didnt answer me.. i think its true,.my grandma is not here right now she living in the states, i get totally sad when i heard this.,should i get mad for my grandma for trying to abort me before?,.or should i just forget it,.i thougt my grandman loves me, coz she's really good to me when she came home from the states,.but now its like everything has chnge for me,.,huhu..,.help some advise there please..
5 responses
@kishchun (497)
• Oman
29 Jan 07
hey, i understand that you must be feeling awful after hearing about this, and pretty bitter about your grandma's stance too, but am sure once you were born, she fell in love with you, the baby. so, whatever her reasons were, just forgive and forget. see, it's not YOU that she didn't want, she was just planning something for her daughter and didn't want her daughter hurt. perhaps she didn't envisage your dad would be the right person for her daughter. whatever, it was a thing of the past, a part of history which isn't pleasant for you to recall. just think of the present and trust me when i say she must have fallen for you as a baby, so she loves you , really, doesn't she? hey, smile, everything IS fine, nothing is lost, right?
@danielcatastrophy22 (775)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
hey thanks for that, i feel little well now for your message,.thanks for the advice,.i think i just need time to forget this,.thanks!!!
@dreams_murali (120)
• India
29 Jan 07
u have to enquire about this from ur mom, for what reason did ur grandma thought of doing like that. may b cz of ur mom's health condition. i think so....
@danielcatastrophy22 (775)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
well thanks for the advice i already did,.but she just dont answer,.its like she cant tell me the truth but i understand her,.
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
29 Jan 07
There is a lot of reason for a mother for wanted her child to abort. This is the past. I'm sure she was pretty happy when you were born and that now she,s a great grandmother.
Maybe she was tinking your dad and mom wasnt ready and when you were born she knew she was wrong.
Don't be mad at her for that. You don't have to think about it.
@danielcatastrophy22 (775)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
yeah maybe but things for me about my grandma has really change when i heard that,.huhu,.,thanks for the advice and for the reply
@naps2c (137)
• India
7 Feb 07
abort u from where??i guess u r already born...then how can she tell ur mom to abort u??...nyways thats not legal on her part..its completely on ur mom wheteher she wants to abort u or not...and no mom wud like to do that for sure...
@sehgalskapil (1332)
• India
16 Feb 07
i think u shd not hate her coz she is ur grand ma ofcourse u sd respect her.there may be some kind of condition that she was wanting this bt if she loves u now u shd forgive her.coz u r born bcoz of god's wish n noone cud stop it.ur hate towards her will only ruin relations now ..so just forget it n enjoy the rest of life.
