how important is to look beautiful...??

India
January 29, 2007 11:37am CST
it is said tht first impression is the last impression... is it true..... that if u go for an interview ur skills are the better than the others but the skirt the other girl is wearin is shorter or if u r a guy u r smarter but the job goes to the guy taller or with better personality.... is physical apperace more vital than ur brains....??? i have noticed that if a girl is beautiful she is given seat in bus if she is in problem people help immidiately if not hardly anyone notices.... are look everything...?? doesnt having a clean heart count anymore...?? its true u hve to love urself for other to love u but wht if u were born to be average... wht do we do go under knife....???
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6 responses
@weslenv (175)
• India
3 Feb 07
man may look at ur face and ur outerlook ,how u dress ur color,etc..but god sees ur heart..so be cool always dont be angry of others who r bad as u have mentioned..According to me ur brain is the one which plays an important role and not beauty..See god knows wat v want and he ll surely give it to us..He can understand our feelings..so dont think abt others wat ever is given to u,do it happily..though people in tis world give preference to beauty,beauty will last only for few months or year but real beauty is in one's heart which ll last for ever...so be cool man dont worry./......
• India
3 Feb 07
its not me who is angry... i saw it happenin i thought it might b a good topic to discuss n knw peoples view abt the same.... i m happy with wht god gave me... n he did a good job however.... nwaz u r right y to care abt wht people think and who u actully dnt care abt.... u r beautiful and its the way u see urself and ur self confidence matters right......
@Sissygrl (10914)
• Canada
30 Jan 07
I think it might be important to some people, especially shallow people, but i dont dress up or put make up on for them. i do it to please myself. make myself look good. i think that you dont have to be the best lookin person to get the job usually, you just have to look presentable, cause if you dont look decent, it gives the impression that you dont look after yourself. and if you can't look after yourself, why would you look after your job. that's my opinion anyways. i've never had a job in the office world either. so i only assume that people wouldnt be so shallow as to hire the beautiful bimbo instead of the smart person no matter what they look like, it would only benifit their office to hire the better canidate.
• India
3 Feb 07
hmm but it happens.... i hve seen it happening with my friend...he hired a girl who was better lookin and has the guts to tell me may b in few days he cn ask her out.... thts whn tis topic struck me..... but yes u look good u feel good... y to care abt people u dnt meet everyday and u dnt care abt....huh..!!!!
@soumyaraj (401)
• India
29 Jan 07
HI MAZNA, LOT HAS BEEN SD ABOUT THIS BUT I THINK BEAUTY REALLY COUNTS (OUTR BEAUTY).INNER BEAUTY ONLY COUNTS WHN A PRSN NEEDS TO KNOW U MORE.
• India
30 Jan 07
right.... tht means the person someone who looks just ok or below ok no one would want to knw him or her... now thts not fair.... i would just like to say beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.... wht u think..... thanx alot for ur response.......
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Looks don't last forever, but if that's what you're into, then whatever. I mean if you're looking for a life partner it's the conversations that you have that you'll remember the most in old age. So I'd say that you should find someone that makes you laugh and that you can have good conversations with. The way that I see it now is, "If you don't like the way I look, don't look at me!"
• India
30 Jan 07
thts very thru... if u are lookin at life long partner u dont go on looks.... but isnt it true tht evn if u ask a girl or a boy out... u want to taek smeone out for a movie its smeone who looks nice.... because whn u introduce ur partner to other u always want to be proud.... we always want our partner to be beautiful or handsme.... but as it is said beauty lies in the eyues of the beholder.... if u love smeone with all ur heart tht person will be the most beautiful girl or the most handsome guy.... right....?? thanx alot for ur response.....
@brihanna (381)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I think that everyone-really can look good. A good looking person exudes confidence (probably rightfully so). I believe that if you are confident, well groomed, dressed in clean, pressed, clothing-you are beautiful. Beauty is a very subjective adjective, and I do not believe people only see the exterior beauty as a lasting impression.
• India
30 Jan 07
well its universal tht u would want to be surrounded by good lookin people it makes a good impression.... well if u ask urself who would u rather go to a movie with.... beautiful girls.... or a girl who is below average.... i m no exception... but i think at times isnt it unfair for those people who cnt do anythg abt it evn if they hve the right figure but not the right face to match..... thanks alot for ur response i m kinda new to mylot never thought smeone might respond.....
@freak369 (5123)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Looks are only skin deep. If you are going to love someone it has to be the real deal. You have to be prepared to love them regardless of what they look like or how they change. Someone could step in front of a bus and in one second, their life is changed. That's when you find out who loves you and who is a true friend.