my girlfriend is pregnant

@marxxx (88)
United States
January 29, 2007 8:49pm CST
my gf is pregnant. she wants us to go seperate ways, because i'm still a student, but we love each other so much, im so afraid that my mom would know my condition, i might stop from studying, what should i do? i love her but i cant be with her and my child..
6 responses
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
16 Apr 07
She wants to go because you are a student, so what happens to your baby? Was she not aware that you are a student before she started dating and getting pregant for you? I love you for even standing and claiming paternity even when she is behaving immature. you should be the one wanting a seperate ways and not her. Or is that she wanted a baby of her own without any attached father? I dont think your studentship is her reason for wanting a separate ways, there could be more to it. Dont be afraid of your parents, you need your wife and the baby,two of you need to seat down agree on what to do with the issue and then inform you both parents. There is always a way out! Good luck.
@erikbench (169)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
tell your parents, finish your studies, then marry her.. don't let go of her, she's just afraid and doesn't know what to do.. certain individuals have the tendency to take the easy way out when beset with overwhelming problems.. actually, what she is trying to say to you is that you should stand up for her, protect and care for her.. good luck..
• United States
30 Jan 07
You just need to step up to your responsiblity as a father. You can still be there for your child, and not be with the child's mother. And you can still be in the child's life and support the child as well. You need to do what is right, even if that means letting your mom know what's going on. Good luck...
@maxedo (5)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
i think you should tell your mom and dad heart to heart about your condition (Proverbs 1:8-"Hear my son your father's instruction, and do not forsake your mother's teaching.), they will listen to you "no father will give to his son a snake when he is asking a bread." you don't want to lose either your study or your gf have a negotiation between them to finish study and take the responsibility as a father, to become a father is easy but to be a a father is another story. psalm 127:3 " Behold, children are a gift of the lord; the fruit of the womb is a reward." brod if you do foolish things you find yourself to lose like what prophet jeremiah said 17:9-"the hearth is more deceitful than all else and is desperately sick; who can understand it?"
@jbrowsin66 (1321)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Tell your mother, finish school, then be with your girlfriend. In that order. Take one day at a time. Communicate with both your girlfriend and your mother and calmly come to a decision that is best for all.
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
Be a man. You should ready to the consequences of your action. Talk to the girl and make a best plan that would benifited both parties. The same scenario was happened to me last 2002 of august when I was single like you. But I never escaped to the ghost that I made by my self, I faced it through prayers and saying the truth to my parents. Go bro! You can deal with it!!!