What Am I Supposed To Do?

Indonesia
January 30, 2007 2:50am CST
When my by and I are hanging out together, there's a sms from our chatting friend (L) to my boyfriend saying, 'I had broke-up...'. Then my bf answered her, 'I see'. Then she replied, "444 64449999 88". If you see on your phone keypad, it will be "I MIZ U". My bf sent another message to her, "No I don't. I'm with my gf now". And she replied, "I'm sorry, I just confused to whom I should talk to." It turned up to be another story, a month ago, I broke up with my bf. And he said that he had crush with that girl. But she was having a boyfriend that time. They met each other once (but my bf brought his sister & brother with him). And nothing happened. Well, I met L once in chatting too, I was very sad about the break-up and she's supporting me to be back with my bf. She said something like, "I hope the two of you can be together again." My point is, I'm very dissapointed about this. I thought she's a good person, she supported me, and everything. But at my back, she's trying to cheat my bf to be with her. My bf, however, didn't respond her, and I believe him. (my bf is an honest person). Also, I really feel annoyed knowing someone is trying to steal my bf. Well, my question are: 1. Do you think she still like my bf? 2. I'm planning to ask her about what's her meaning of sending sms like that (that 'i miss u'). Do you think I should do that? If no,What should I do with her? 3. What will you do if you're having a problem like this? Thx, sorry if it's too long.
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victorwzj
@victorwzj (539)
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31 Jan 07
444 64449999 88 , I don't get this at all . It is some sort of secret code or something? . You don't need to know whether she like your boy friend or not. If you trust your boy friend then you don't need to worry about it. Trust is very important in a relationship . It is entirely your choice to ask her that. I do recommend you do that and ask her what is "444 64449999 88". just pretend that you don't what what the number mean. If she really want to steal your boy friend then just ask her to back down. There are no point continue being her friend, you don't need friend that stab you on the back. Pretty much case close if you trust your boy friend and if he love you then you shouldn't worry a thing.
Cherry_Eve
@Cherry_Eve (285)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 07
444 6444999 88 is a code of 'I miz U' if you use your keypad on your handphone. 444 means you pressed the '4' button 3 times, G -- H -- I, maybe if you look at your handphone, then you will understand about this thing. Yes I think it's a sort of 'secret' codes. Well, I trust my boyfriend, but I just don't like it when she send some messages or call my bf, I just feel annoyed about it. Maybe I'm jealous... =p I think I will try to calm down, but if she keep sending and calling my bf, then I have no choice, but to tell her to stop. Anyway, thx for your responds, Victor.
victorwzj
@victorwzj (539)
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31 Jan 07
oh, I get it now. 444 mean "I", Well, jealousy is a good thing. It show that you care about your boy friend. Just that you don't show too much or constantly attack your boy friend for that. Some boy friend do get happy if you get jealous once in a while but not all male is the same. Jealousy also mean that you don't trust him and some male do not like if his girl friend does not trust him. p/s congrats , you reached 9 star rating in just few days.