depression/broken heart due to infidelty of spouse

That sucks!

well there must be something that i have done wrong for my partner to look for another that is my opinion you must always see if you have done something first other than blaming your partner

the frist thing you do is keep your cool.because of the kids.i know i would be pissed off badly.but its not worth fighting an killing each other over.i would ask her to leave the house an i would keep the kids if she wanted to cheat with another man let her go live with him,what ever you do just think of the kids frist.

It will be a huge shock on me if that is the case!!! I will just get my blood temperature rising. I dont know whether I will first beat my wife or her boyfriend. Whatever it is I will block my wife from reaching her boyfriend. But if she protests & continues meeting him, then I will surely able to understand the reality. I may ask her for divorce as well in that case :)

I have been there and I was married to mine for 30 years,married at 15,and found out 30 years later...I felt like I had been married to a stranger that I did not really know.It felt as though someone cut my heart out,and yes with a relative just like yours....I was so confused as to what to do,I had invested all those years and had all my children with this man...I wish that could have found out after 10 years and not wasted that other 20 years...I left him after grieving about it for a year,I waited because he was my life and did not know what to do...I finally took that final step and left,It took me 4 years to stop grieving over him,because I left him but still loved him,but I could not live that way anymore...My life will never be the same again....I have matured though and learned from it,but it was very very hard,I cryed for ever but I don,t cry anymore...I finally remarried 3 year ago,and no it isn,t the same ,probably never will be but I am content and have someone to share my life with and he is very good to me....I don,t know what to tell you ,all i can say is God bless you and hope you can find your way as I did....

First i will talk to my wife and ask her why is she doing this? Second, talk to her relative and make them realize that this is crazy. Talk to them and make your wife realize what she's doing is wrong and that she will loose you and your kids... Let her know that this will not be tolerated. If she will not stop that foolishness i think its better file an annulment or instead file a case against her so that she will realize what will she loose... You can also make an agreement w/ her before filling such case.