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@aslygirl (531)
Philippines
January 30, 2007 7:54pm CST
When a friend doesn't give you a call or ignore your e-mail, does mean your not friends anymore?
3 people like this
9 responses
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
well friends are friends... even if they not give you a call or not responding in your e-mail does't mean they are not friends anymore.I'm sure theres a reason behind that and what ever reason it is, Im still agood friend no matter what.
• India
1 Feb 07
Hi, it doesn't mean that if you dont have any contact with your friend you are not friends anymore... i was in UK for 2 years... and having a busy schedule over there.... but when i came back to india, the very third day my best friend came to my place to see me and.... in 2 years we had word with each other just on our b'day...... not a single call was made to say hi as we had our own problems.... she was busy with her married life and i was busy with my studies and job.... so i feel that if we dont have contact we have that understanding with our friends.... and the one who understand us is our true friend...
@edigital (2709)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think so, ignoring mail or phone call means my friends are either annoyed to my conduct or do no longer wish to keep my friendship. Ofcourse if my mail create any disturbance to my friend I should consider not to send such mail more. I will send a open mail asking very politely the cause of his/her ignorance of disliking about me though if he/she keep silent I will say a goodbye to that friend and will learn something for future guidance about friend. I believe a friend in need is a friend indeed.
@shiela15 (286)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
If you don't have often communication with your friend, don't think that she/he has forgotten you already. Each person has got life to do. In some other way, you don't have a business with it that means your not part of the task his doing, the place where he/she stay and you have different dreams. However, it's not the distance that measures friendship. Here's the quote that i love. "The farthest place is not when I'm distant of but when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you." Many miles you maybe far, different ways of living but in everyway, a true friend reminisce you to cheer his/her own life. Just be happy because it happened in your life that you've got a very lovable friend that inspires you always in your life and made you believe that you're a better person, worthkeeping and so much nice and worthkeeping ever in his/her life!
@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I woudn't jump to those conclusions right away. Unless it has been alot of time that has passed by than I'd worry. These days some are very busy caught up in their everyday lives they don't answer back right when they get a message or call. I've thought the same about my friends but they are out of state. Than when they finally do call back or e-mail they apologize because they were busy with their family's, job, etc.
@jabrunk (41)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 07
Possibly,because the friend could be asked to speak and exchange the opinion.If the friend ignored the telephone or the e-mail,we will be lonely
• United States
31 Jan 07
I don't know but all I can tell you is to keep trying to find out what is going on with her or call here and leave a message and ask her what is wrong why haven't you called or answered my emails and are you mad at me or something please tell me I have a right to know thats what I would say!
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Yes probably, either that or they are extremely busy. I would just stop trying for a while and see if they call you, or email you. Or I would try to catch them some where face to face and just ask them! Good Luck!
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I think if a friend does not call you or respond to email does not necessarily mean that your friend is not your friend anymore. Maybe he or she is just busy with life. Just wait for him/her one day.