should a guy have 3 to 4 wife?
By baby88
@baby88 (696)
Singapore
January 31, 2007 3:17am CST
it seem like im asking a stupid question, but do you guys know that in the olden days of chinese. at that time guys with rich family had 3 to 4 wifes is totally alright, or should i say wife n mistress. ok here the question for the guys n pls be honest. do u guys want to hv 3 to 4 wife nowaday like the olden days of chinese n why? for the girls the question is will you allow ur husband to be share n why? hope to hear from you all.
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18 responses
@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I think it depends on the culture and the society in which a person belongs. Some find it perfectly normal to have more than one wife/husband while some just don't entertain such ideas (they see it as adultery). Generally, there could only be one man and one woman, not one man and one dozen women. The Bible clearly states this fact. =)
@jinxed666 (562)
• India
8 Feb 07
three to four wifes , r u crazy? man i cant even take care my only wife ur taking about high numbers here .I m just wondering how that these guys used to keep there women and happy and take care of there wimps and fancies ,for me after getting married and becoming husband has screwed my happiness and freedom
@samimkardar (828)
• United States
8 Feb 07
Religion does not restrict for getting marriage more than one but only for male. From medical point it is possible, but for female it is not possible to get marry more than one in the same time. If a male can offord it socially and economically than he can marry more than one, but he should take permission from his first wife.
@goalkeeper (514)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Muslims are allowed to have 3 or more wife. But it depends on their current wife if they let their husband to marry another girl.
@frostygrrl (112)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
I find hard to believe a man truly loves me if he had others in mind. There will always some inert jealousy. Its really weird but my last boyfriend wanted me to be in a relationship while he had someone else on the side. Guys seem to be able to handle polygamy better, don't you think?
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
I'm a woman, and no i wouldnt share my husband. not only is that asking for std's its just wrong, and against my morals. If my husband wanted more then me, then i would leave him and he could do whatever he wanted. it would be hard but i would rather leave him and be spared the humiliation and hurt of being cheated on.
@Corvin (417)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Will you accept your husband to have a wife of 3 to 4? I think if "I" have 3 or 4 wives then it will be frustrating with me because i don't know how will i divide my attention to them plus financial needs of the family. So for me a guy should only have 1 and only 1. Stick to one!
@chatyang420 (465)
• Nepal
3 Feb 07
If you think wife or husband as a game then you can have as much wife or husband but if you think wife or husband as a life partner then one is enough to care for it all the life...
@bhushanam (79)
• India
31 Jan 07
I dont agree in having 3 to 4 wives and i think i am at present satisfied with my wife.some times i think of enjoying with other girls but as of now the urge to meet other girls is not high.olden days people were afraid of rich people because of their power and money so some of them were forced to get married.
@ProAmerica (131)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I think men should only have one wive and no mistress. Granted men do cheat on there wifes all the time but it still doesnt make it right. Once you get married, you should be commited to each other.
